家庭教育：成长的路上多坎坷 Family education: how bumpy the road to growth

The mood is extremely irritable. There have been a lot of annoying things that have happened in the past week, and they add up to something that's really annoying.

I haven't had a good night's sleep in a week. First my son suddenly nosebleeds at night, blood on his face scared me out of my wits, and I could not sleep for a long time. I felt tired at work during the day and thought I would have a good sleep at night. The next night, something else happened. The son shouted throat pain, uncomfortable, one after another to smoke tissue to spit, not long after the use of half a box of tissue. By morning, he had lost his voice. I was restless and didn't sleep well.

See son spirit is very poor, had to ask the teacher for leave, that the morning class actually have 7 leave. Time to noon, the son's temperature soared to nearly 40 degrees, soft lying motionless, hurriedly gave him to take antipyretic medicine. The class group also fryers, fever children one by one, was informed to pick up parents. There were forty children in the class, and by the end of the day nearly half of them were sick.

At first I thought it was the flu. Parents in the group to talk about the illness of the small patients, the common point is that the onset of the child symptoms are more serious, fever, and the temperature is very high, about 40 degrees. The most headache is not down, take antipyretic medicine not long before it went up again. Antipyretic drugs can only be taken four times a day. Every time I took the medicine, I prayed that it wouldn't burn again, and every time my hope was quickly dashed.

Then the son is a night of high fever, eat antipyretic medicine and then burn up. I was distraught. The next morning, she went to the hospital and was diagnosed with bacterial infection. The doctor said that there was no problem in the lungs and asked her to go home for observation.

The diagnosis was "infectious fever." In a few words, we were suffering. Two days seems a long time to observe!

In the past, I experienced a cold, flu or even the new coronavirus. My son can always retire after taking medicine and fever, and his mental state is good. Once the fever is gone, he can play with toys. This time it was very unusual. I took antipyretic medicine and the fever returned after a while. All the time I was depressed, I just wanted to lie down and sleep and did nothing.

I've never been so anxious. I took a leave of absence to stay home with the kids, but I was constantly being approached with messy work chores. My irritable heart just want to say, can you leave me alone! When my baby is more than six years old, I want to quit my job every time my baby gets sick!

The bacterial icon do not know where holy, the children are similar symptoms, the children are all hot and weak, parents suffering, communicate with each other's disease.

I am in deep distress. A parent of a child in a neighboring class sent me a wechat message, saying that he was devastated because he had to make phonetic charts and English. I said I broke down, I now have nothing else, what study hard, what every day up, then say, first healthy up! My son is ill and unwell. He is grumpy, often angry and crying. How I want to turn him back into a live baby! Get better! Tear down your house!

Parents were asking each other about their children again, and one child's fever had gone down, which made me feel like I could see the light.

These days, I can't eat, sleep, and feel physically and mentally exhausted. Once a child is ill, the mother is light. The truth.

心情无比的烦躁。这一周来发生了很多烦人的事情，堆积在一起就把人折磨得够呛。

这一周来就没睡个正常觉。先是儿子晚上突然流鼻血，满脸血渍把我吓得魂飞魄散，久久不能入睡。白天上班时觉得很疲惫，心想晚上好好睡一觉吧。到了第二天晚上，又有了别的幺蛾子。儿子吆喝着嗓子疼，难受，一张接一张地抽着纸巾要吐痰，没多久就用了半盒纸巾。等到了早上，已经嗓子哑了。我烦躁不安，没有睡好。

看儿子精神很差，只好跟老师请假，得知早上班里竟然有7个请假的。时间到了中午，儿子体温飙升到近四十度，软绵绵的躺着不动，连忙给他吃了退热药。班级群里也炸锅了，发烧的孩子一个接一个，被陆续通知家长接走。班里总共四十个孩子，一天下来就出来接近一半的小病号。

最初我想应该是流感吧。家长们在群里七嘴八舌地议论小病号们的病情，共同的一点就是这次发病的孩子症状较重，都发烧，而且温度很高，40度左右。最头疼的是降不下来，吃了退热药没多久就又升上去了。而退热药24小时最多只能吃四次。每次吃完了药，都要苦苦祈祷不要再烧了，每次希望都很快破灭。

然后儿子又是一晚上的高烧，吃完退烧药又接着烧上去。我心急如焚。第二天上午，去医院就诊，诊断为细菌感染，医生说肺部没问题，让回家观察，如果两天后无缓解再就医。

诊断结果是“感染性发热”，短短几个字，我们是如此煎熬！观察两天，显得这么漫长！

以前经历了什么感冒啊流感啊甚至新冠啊，儿子发热吃了药总能退下去，精神状态还都不错，只要退了烧就能玩会玩具。这回很反常，吃了退热药一会就又烧回去，一直精神萎靡不振，只想躺着睡觉，什么也不愿干，烧了才一天多，连坐起来的力气也没了。

从没这么焦虑过。请了假在家陪着孩子，但总有工作上的乱七八糟的琐事来找我。我烦躁的心只想说，能不能别来烦我！娃儿长到六岁多，每次娃生病我都想辞职！

这次的细菌不知是何方神圣，中招的孩子们都是差不多的症状，孩子们个个滚烫乏力，家长们苦苦煎熬着，互相交流病情。

我正深陷苦恼，有个邻班孩子的家长给我发微信，说又要弄拼音表又要弄英语，要崩溃了。我说我才崩溃，我现在别无所求，什么好好学习，什么天天向上，再说吧，先健健康康起来！儿子生病身体不适，脾气暴躁，动辄气呼呼，哭唧唧。好想把他一键还原成那个活蹦乱跳的娃啊！好起来吧！拆家去吧！

家长们又在互相打探孩子的病情，有个孩子退烧了，这让我感觉看到了曙光。

这几天茶饭不思，寝食难安，感觉身心俱疲。孩子病一次，妈妈轻十斤。真理。

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