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Marriage is a strong bond, a strong commitment. Allah has made this arrangement effective in order to build strong bonds between men and women. After getting married, both of them are a pair. Although they are different in terms of personality, in reality they are paired with each other. The genius of one another. Everyone's own desires and aspirations are interconnected, connected.
In order to convey the ultimate firmness and inseparability of this relationship between husband and wife, it has been said in the Qur'an: Wives are your garment, you are their garment. The basic premise of this verse is that husband and wife should be in harmony with each other, covering each other's privacy, supporting each other and providing beauty to each other. In other words, everyone has rights over the other. That right must be fully realized. This right is completely equal, it is clear from the words of Allah except the special rights given to men according to their nature.
For wives, there are things that are clear and customary for them. But men have a priority over them.
That priority stage is to make the director-regulator responsible and accountable. A man asked the Prophet (peace be upon him): What right do our wives have over us? He replied:
That is, feed them with your own clothes. And do not slap him in the face, do not abuse him, and do not leave him anywhere except in his house. Therefore, it is not permissible for a Muslim to show indifference or neglect in the maintenance of his wife. It has been said in Hadith
It is enough for a person to be a sinner that he shows utter disregard for those who are entrusted with the responsibility of providing for him.
Islam does not allow any slapping on the face of the wife. Because this work is against human dignity and honor. In it the most honorable and dignified part of the body - where all the beauty of the body is concentrated - is injured and damaged. The question of educating and nurturing a disobedient and arbitrary wife as needed can sometimes lead to a mild death of the wife. But it is not permissible to hurt him or to kill his face. It is not permissible to abuse one's wife. It is completely unlawful to hurt him, to say unbearable things to him, or to make bad prayers for him.
It is not lawful for a woman who is a believer in God to allow a person whom her husband does not like to enter her husband's house. It is not permissible for her to go out of the house without her husband's permission. She should not obey anyone else in this matter, nor should she stay away from her husband's bed. If the husband is abusive, he will try his best to keep her satisfied. It would be better if her husband accepted this service. God will accept his excuse and reveal his truthfulness. And if the husband does not agree, then the excuse of his incapacity will reach Allah.
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