I'll tell you this today!
Believe you me, as a guy don't ever show your emotions most especially to the other gender, because most times you will regret it.
You'll be perceived as weak, a loser who can take care of his own sh*t, sometimes rejected and abandoned, disrespected.
Even when you realize you might be causing others inconveniences with your issues, and you try to be alone so you can think of a way out of the situation without seeking their help, they call you prideful...
So when in a situation where you're helpless and hopeless. Don't know what to do anymore, take a chill pill look inwards, admit you have a problem, study your situation, and try to see how to work things out as easy as possible. Lastly pray to God about it.