Ladies love attention more than money

After a thorough survey and research, we came to find out that one of the easiest ways to steal a lady's heart is via giving her attention.
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I know you may want to ask about money; just hold on first...
Ladies just love to be shown attention, to be checked on always like LiveScore. With maximum attention from poor guy, he can snatch the rich guy's girlfriend...exactly the way Satan snatched Eve from Adam🙄

Ladies like to talk

Every lady loves to talk, irrespective of the class they fall into, whether the introvert or extrovert. The introvert would go along pretending to love being alone, feeling the comy of their room, but hey, once a 'sabi guy'(guy that knows how to keep a conversation) comes knocking at their door, watch as they will pull off their introvert shirt and hang at a corner.

I'm not married, but I've seen a lot of this attribute in many homes. In a situation where the husband is not always at home to stage a cool gist with the wife, the wife will find it uncomfortable, that's why you will see ladies in compound bonding easily at first, even though the bond will get sour in a short time.
When I stayed in my boss's house, the wife always love to engage me with gist, which I oftentimes get along with, but at times when I want to concentrate on my online hustles, I usually shot my door when I notice that she's catwalking herself to my spot for gists. She'd notice my unreadiness and would become restless because she needs someone to talk to. This is the point where she goes out to the neighbors' house to relieve herself with compressed words she wants to pour out.

To the married men here, ladies always love to talk, and if you're not giving them attention, then watch them as they search for a conversation partner elsewhere, either in person or online, and before you know it, she has gotten a bestie, from bestie….to you know what's up🤧

You know the story of Adam, Eve, and Satan in the Bible. The easiest skill that Satan used to get Eve was attention. Satan noticed that Adam was not around, Eve was alone and looking for a chatmate, and the devil saw it as a good opportunity to strike.

Or what do you think was their discussion? It wasn't a business deal, it was merely entertaining chats, and I'm sure Eve screamed countless "Awwwnnn" along the line.

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I've been in a situation where I almost used attention to snatch my friend's girlfriend. I just had to pity my friend and distanced myself from his baby.

How it happened;

These people (let's call them Paul and Mary) were in a very serious relationship leading to marriage, and I was aware. But somehow, I and Mary got acquainted because she found my lifestyle lovely.

I'm the introvert type, but I can be chatty when I see someone with the same sense of humor, so we got along so quickly to the extent that we talk every day.

Whenever we are out in a group, Mary would leave Paul's side and shift to mine because I don't seize talking. She would be laughing and opening her teeth at my jokes which deters Paul's mood.

I was feeling for Paul because he was trying to hide his hurt, but no way, I'm a guy, and I know how it hurts.

And in all these situations, he was still trying to be fair to me. I was expecting a confrontation, but that didn't come, so I assumed he was planning a big deal on my head.
Omo! One thing I hate so much is to get beaten via a lady's case. So, I just reluctantly withdrew my distance from Mary to avoid having troubles.
If I were to be a bad guy, I would have scattered their relationship in a calm way.

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Thanks for reading
_{I've really missed engaging in this Community, the Community I found "my soon to be" soulmate. I'm resuming soon 💪}

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