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QUESTION:
Please I need an answer to this question. My husband do shout at me whenever we have misunderstanding. Actually, at times I do try to defend myself if we have misunderstanding._
What is the way out, because I hate being shouted on.
Glory be to Allaah.
In marriage, couple studying each other's personality is very important.
Your husband hates it when he's correcting you but you trying to be defensive!
_It is in a man to be picking offensive when you are trying to be defensive as a woman. When he's correcting you politely, you need to listen to him and make the necessary corrections.
SOLUTION
_When he's talking, try to remain silent. As a wife, it's not a must to talk you talk back at that time even if there are some offensive points in his statement. Just remain silent to make peace reign. Your talking or replying may lead to something else.
Everyday, Shaytaan do give his workers gift, but the one with the most precious gift is the one that separated lovers.
_When he's done, try to say I'm sorry and go on your own. When you can express yourself is when you are on bed together. Just call his attention politely. Doing that, BI'IDHNILLAAH, he will change many bad things in your marriage but don't forget to be prayerful always.
May Allaah grant us best in our marriage and strengthen the bond between us Aamin.
Happy Home.*
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