All the people of the world who have climbed to the pinnacle of happiness, have a thought living in their minds unknowingly - the fear of suddenly sinking into the abyss of sorrow.
Again, those who are always upset with sorrow, they also have a real dream of being happy by cherishing in their heart.
Just as kings have the fear of losing the kingdom, so do the people dream of becoming kings one day.
Like day and night, life also has its ups and downs. Someone breaks, someone- or gets back to the shores of life.
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And in this world of ups and downs, no human being or friend is ever a true sharer of sorrow.
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The man of love does not have the power to stop the bleeding of the heart of the afflicted man. When someone spends sleepless nights day after day, overwhelmed with sorrow and immersed in the darkness of anxiety and despair. Still no one stays awake for anyone.
So you have to take care of yourself.
You have to be careful. Memories of happiness or sorrow or
Life events should be given as much importance as they demand. Not less, not more.
You have to take responsibility for keeping yourself well. Because if you put the responsibility of your own well-being on others, if that person really leaves you in the cycle of time, then life will become very miserable. When you don't have someone to provide you with the means to survive, then death will be better.
So take responsibility for your own life without blindly depending on others.
Remember, in the darkness of the night your shadow is lost until the hour. Is there any guarantee that people will not get lost from life ???
So remember, the only true benefactor of you or me is Allah Ta'ala. So, the only vow of your life or mine is to please Allah, not man.