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Being ghosted is a pretty terrible thing to endure… for those who don’t deserve it, anyway. Those who do are another story. It’s safe to say that there are indeed certain offenses that definitely deserve a swift cold shoulder, and according to the experts we asked, those offenses are numerous. So the next time you start to see any of these red flags, feel free to start preparing to disappear in a cloud of smoke, leaving your potentially problematic counterpart on read for all eternity.
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She offended you and the best way to make it clear to her is cutting contact right? She is not listening to how pissed you are concerning your last argument and you think the best way to pass the message across is ghosting right?
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The thought that ghosting is the perfect strategy to prove a point to your partner is fine but I'll tell you what ghosting actually does.
Ghosting doesn't help you sort out anything or bring any solution in your relationship instead it causes more harm. It may seem fine and effective now, but in the long run, you'll need shades to protect your eyes from damage ghosting radiates.
When l say ghosting, I'm not referring to the spiritual stuff, l mean intentionally cutting off contact or being out of reach with your partner for long periods without reason or notice. Lots of couples use ghosting as a protest to make the other partner feel bad about their action or get things done.
Just so you know, ghosting is emotional abuse, it hurts the partner on the receiving end, makes them feel alone and have them contemplating the end of the relationship. When this becomes a habit, your partner will have gotten detached and think less of your appearance and disappearance.
What's a relationship when partners don't even bother about not talking to each other for long periods? It's a puzzle you should complete.
So instead of ghosting, communicate your feelings, dislike etc and get it over with. The message ghosting passes is that you are done. It's more like wanting to make a purchase online and immediately the payment is made the seller doesn't reach out to you or reply to you. The first thought that runs through your mind naturally is "have l been scammed?" Likewise, your partner also asks "does he or she want a break up?" You shouldn't leave the impression that it's over and suddenly reappeared as though nothing happened.
Before you thinking of ghosting again for another one month, ask yourself "do l want to end this?" Even if you want to, make your intentions known and move on. Don't joke around with your partner's feelings. Communicating is key ghosting is not.
Bottom line? Ghosting hurts and is one big killer of relationships. You can call it an ungun known man😁 Don't introduce that it your in your relationship, that's if you want a lasting one.
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