Sometimes increase, sometimes decrease, sometimes happy, sometimes be in sadly. That is a viewing of life if we view from a general aspect that covers all levels of society.
Maybe we often hear advice from friends, friends, even family "live as it is!". But if what is and is being with us is not what we want, how can we get used to it.
For me personally, if indeed the space of life that we cover does not contain the things we want, we don't have to live it as it is, but what we have to do is try a little harder until what we want is in our lives without having to "look for life other"./