Premarital sex is only bad or forbidden on religious ground, anything outside that is face lifting! Many marriages today, i mean successful ones started from premarital sex.
Haven't you also heard the disadvantages of not having premarital sex? Or have we not heard cases where man can't perform after marriage or even impotent because the lady did not check what she's buying. Or man/woman not be able to satisfy his/her partner thereby leading to divorce?
If you ask many married people today, majority of them had it. The unwanted babies, molestation and the rest are merely arguments to stop people from doing it. The act itself has nothing to do with the outcome. Just date the right person who shares your dream, vision!
@smyle a question for you if the man later canceled the relationship after impregnating the woman what would be the joy of her
It would be like a shame and disgrace because not everyone are honest in their relationships
@smyle the essence of this contest is to increase engagements on blurt and this you have properly initiated here.
You have pointed out some technical questions that needs professional, experienced psychological and pragmatic address.
I call on the contest host @alendomaster619 to come and answer this questions 😋😋😋
I liked this comment because there are questions that make us think and that we are seeing daily in society.
Hahaha, I agree that the lady must review everything that she considers important to obtain. Although the basis of marriage is not in sex, this is a fundamental part of a relationship. Courtship is to know everything that is at stake.
And here is the key. When two people have the same vision, nothing can separate them, and this is where the sentence that reads is fulfilled: You will not be unequally yoked
@oneray relationship is not always about sex but it is part of it, to people divorcing because of lack of satisfaction during sex means sex meant a lot to them
Thanks a lot for the contribution
Certainly, sex is not everything, but it is very important in a relationship. How to know if that other person is my complement? It is no secret to anyone that when a courtship begins everything is beautiful and rosy, but when it is already a formal relationship, defects begin to be found, and the more time passes, many more appear. I think that, although it seems to be not correct, having premarital relations is much closer to reality than married life will be.
And as I said before, the culture that we have inherited, applauds a man who has had many women before marriage because it "gives" him experience, but a woman who has had a few men in her life before marriage is considered an unreliable woman.
You answer is quite understandable and interesting but my question is
Is it morally right to engage in premarital sex or are we just supporting it to satisfy our self interest 🤔🤔🤔🤔
I understood the question perfectly. The question is to know who dictates the moral norms?
For the Romans, it was very common for men to have male lovers; In fact, do you remember that story in the bible where a centurion asks Jesus to heal his servant? Some historians claim that this servant was the centurion's lover, and this was the reason why he begged Jesus for his healing. In those days, and for Romans, it was morally right to do this.
Did you know that for the Greeks and Romans, having a penis carved on their doors, or as a charm for chains or bracelets, was a kind of amulet to ward off misfortune? For them, it was morally normal, but... Can you imagine if any of us have something like that and walk the streets? This would be a scandal.
So morality is basically about not "harming" another person's intellect, and what's bad for some, turns out to be good for others.
In the time of the apostles, Paul pointed out (speaking of food) that everything was clean, but he had to be careful with those with weak minds because they could stumble because of our freedom.
So... From what angle will we take the concept of morality?
That's where the detail is.