L❤VE Vs LUST

in blurtconnect •  3 years ago 

'My charming goddess with the pink lips, but I thought you know how much I love and cherish you. The fun I'm soliciting is what every romantic partner will cooperate with. And I have told you times without number that this is just my own love language. By the way, don't I look sexy or hot enough? Ever since I set my eyes on you, I haven't been able to think about anything else but how horny you make me feel.'

Ish.. Vicky swallows hard at Tony's words. She had always thought Tony was leading her on a journey of genuine friendship and responsible relationship that might eventually give birth to marriage, but here is Tony winking at her seductively and asking for what seems to her as a hard nut to crack.

The word - love has been misused and desecrated in so many instances. Hence, before you believe that guy or lady ( that express how much they love and cherish you) hook, line and sinker, you need to be sure if it's the true and ideal love or mere lust. It is important to distinguish between these two concepts because to a large extent;
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💥 They determine your welfare/welbeing in the course of that relationship.

💥 They determine if you'll end up heartbroken or happy.

Hence, how can you clearly differentiate love from lust?

⚡Love involves a deep and emotional connection that makes the joy and satisfaction of the other partner a major/lasting priority while lust is basically a state of intense and overwhelming sexual and sensitive physical attraction to someone.

⚡Love is considerate, understanding and respectful but lust is selfish and inconsiderate. It's all about the physical cravings and nothing about how its actions might affect the other partner.

⚡Love seeks meaningful conversations, interactions and how to improve the life of a partner positively but lust disguises in the name of love to substract from your values or reduce your worth.

⚡Love breeds genuine feelings and a good sense of belonging while lust is just regarded as a temporary pleasure and an-on the surface affair which can even end up leaving the other partner abandoned thereafter.
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✨Love is popular in the mentions but many times, not in the true sense of the word and its practicality. However, lust is not popular in the mentions but it is popular in the practical sense.

💫This is because no one will really actually tell you verbally that their feelings for you are mere lusts but they tend to package the lustful desires with a cloak of fake love.

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