I still stay firm in the fundamental axiom of the old pragmatic and calculating quantum physics of our existence : Our consciousness creates everything. Abuse included. The hard part for many to accept is that our consciousness on broader level is the same throughout all the lives / existences in the "physical reality" that we have had. This stems from identifying oneself with the programmed mind that is just a storage of information fed into it since your physical birth. The intelligence comes from rising beyond the programmed mind. When one "wakes up" from being a mere "receiver" and "sufferer" of everything that his mind is manifesting - he stops acting as a victim of the "horrible unjust life", and takes responsibility for the thoughts he entertains throughout the day and becomes a master creator of his reality, thus contributing to the whole humanity in it's effort to wake up.

I am not a "light-worker digging my head in the sand". Quite the opposite. I am a "wisdom messenger" trying to help those who still have their head in the sand of ignorance. Creating a monster with their own thoughts and then fighting it back :))

Everything that you declare as true - becomes true. If you think of live as a "predatory nature of reality" - this is what you get created in the manifested physical experience - ask and it's given. Asking happens in your mind. What you expect - you get.
There is no way around it. Ignoring the fundamental truths of physics doesn't save you from the consequences..

So, what is the vision that you'd like to create with your mind? To which vision you would like to contribute your mental energy to promote its faster manifestation into visible and tangible reality?