Your post took me back to that date. An elderly person with so many children has to think very carefully to distribute his assets equitably (according to each person's needs).
Nowadays, they hardly make a will because they think they will never die, and when the inevitable happens, the dispute in the family to keep as much as possible triggers enmities that last for years.
In fact, I know a woman here in Chile who does not speak to her mother because her father did not leave her anything, except for her younger sister who, according to the plans, would be in charge of taking care of her parents when they were old.
This lady's hatred and bitterness are reflected in her face and in the way she treats the other people around her.
Good point Ray, according to each child's needs.
Also, I have health issues and really should have a better will. I am going to make that a priority. You're right, it can be messy and traumatic for the survivors when someone dies without their wishes recorded.
And your comment reminds me that I must leave behind the bitterness I feel for certain members of my family, who did things to hurt me, and who continue to wish for my demise. It can't help me to reflect their hatred and continue their negativity. I can't let myself become bitter simply because I've been mistreated. Thanks : )
It's the best thing you can do for your health, my dear friend. Holding a grudge is like taking poison and waiting for the other party to die.
You have to be happy and not allow the actions of third parties to affect your peace of mind. Something that is not easy to do, but it is not impossible to achieve either.