Lack of personal responsibility, finger pointing, victim mentality- I swear these things are a disease that is spreading. After reading the rebuttal in the comment section, it's easy to see those characteristics are strong in that individual. Sad really. How hard is it to say "Shit man, sorry, I got a bit self involved for a moment there- I'll make sure you get it back. And while I'm at it, thank you so much for all your help this past year, hopefully I can repay the favors one day or pay them forward..."
My husband has learned the hard way that there are some people you can't help out without being the "asshole" in the end. Takers will take until they've drained a source dry, people with victim mentality do not understand integrity.
I agree, all it needs is I’m rly sorry I was going through a tough time I’ll make sure it’s returned next week. I hope op gets it back and it can all be forgotten.
I don't know the person, so it really could just be they're having a total shit year It happens. But from what I've gathered about Sam here, I wouldn't think he'd take it this far without a reason, certainly not downplay a difficult time for someone without cause.
But yeah, it would be good for it to be peacefully resolved, that's generally my hope for people :)
The truth generally lies somwhere in the middle. Maybe they just didn’t get on but there is no need to say anything but sorry I missed the messages or we must have missed each other I’ll get it back when I get a moment as going through a stressful situation right now. Well that’s my op anyways we all have one I guess 😊