"In fact, GUI Ying's ending may be a kind of completion for me, because when she is older, her fate may be more tragic, because you don't know if one day, Lao Fourth also abandoned her?"
That's what the director of "Into the Dust" said, and I think it's quite true. Guiying's parents died young, became disabled, incontinent, unable to have children, and was constantly beaten by her brother and sister-in-law. She's pathetic and pathetic, and she doesn't know how to fight and she's afraid to fight. After being with Ma Youtie, although the days were difficult, she was no longer beaten, Ma Youtie cared for her, took care of her, did not abandon her, and she got due respect and love.
They worked hard to build a house, have their own home, Ma Youtie promised after the autumn harvest, to buy a big TV home, take her to the hospital in the big city.
How wonderful the future is, is it good to let Guiying leave with such a good vision? Ma Youtie and GUI Ying are not living a good life, Ma Youtie has been bullied by his brother for half his life, GUI Ying has been beaten by his relatives for a long time, they are weak in character, will not refuse, do not know how to resist, if their life gets better, their brother will swarm like locusts, they will be bullied again, robbed, and become nothing.
So character determines destiny. Ma Youtie and Guiying are destined to be bullied all the time.
This admonishes us not to tolerate when bullied, not to tolerate blindly, to say what should be said, and not to refuse. Bullied because you are too easy to talk, want others to dare not bully, talk to be tough, do not be weak and give way.
Kindness, sometimes morals kidnap themselves, I choose not to be kind, does not mean I am a bad person, I just choose not to hurt myself.
“其实贵英的结局可能对我来说算是一种圆满，因为等她再苍老一些的时候，她的命运可能会更加悲惨，因为你不知道会不会有一天，老四也嫌弃她了？”
这是《隐入尘烟》的导演说的，我觉得挺对的。贵英父母早逝，身患残疾，小便失禁，无法生育，一直遭受哥哥和嫂子的殴打。她可怜又可悲，她不懂反抗也害怕反抗。和马有铁在一起后，日子虽然困苦，但她不再挨打，马有铁关心她，照顾她，不嫌弃她，她得到了应有的尊重和爱。
他们辛苦的盖好了房子，有了自己的家，马有铁承诺秋收后，给家里买上大电视，带她去大城市的医院治病。
这个未来多么美好，让贵英带着这样美好的憧憬离去是不是也是好的？马有铁和贵英是过不上好日子的，马有铁半辈子被哥哥欺负，贵英遭受亲人长期殴打，他们俩性格懦弱，不会拒绝，不懂反抗，他们的日子要是变好了，他们的兄长会像蝗虫一样涌来，他们会再被欺负，被掠夺，又变得一无所有。
所以说性格就决定了命运。马有铁和贵英的性格注定了他们会一直遭受欺负。
这告诫我们受欺负时不能忍让，不要一味容忍，该说的就要说出来，该拒绝的就毫不客气。受欺负是因为你太好说话，想要别人不敢欺负，说话就要强硬，不要软弱退让。
善良，有时候是道德绑架自己，我选择不善良，不代表我是一个坏人，我只是选择不伤害自己。
