She is my neighbor and her son Xiao Xing is the same age as mine.
Little star in kindergarten, is a chubby boy, round face, big eyes, very cute. Small star sports cells are not developed, not good at sports, nor naughty, prefer to hide in the side of playing toys. Little star love to laugh, very polite, every time meet always greet happily: "Auntie hello!" ! Little star above there is a sister, little star mother told me: "big treasure according to the book, two treasure when pig. At that time, my sister wanted the best of everything, but now Xiao Xing doesn't matter. There is no need to raise so fine, which saves worry and effort. Xiao Xing eats well and sleeps well, which is much more real than her sister!"
Round, love to laugh, polite little star, whoever see will feel that this is a child growing up in happiness.
Now Xiao Xing is in grade one of primary school. However, his appearance changed and his life changed drastically.
Last time I saw Starlet, I almost didn't recognize him. Xiao Xing has lost a lot of weight, it seems to be more than ten jin lighter. Originally chubby figure, now is on the thin side. Small star walking head down to see the ground, see the expression of people, eyes without light.
From grandma's mouth, learned that little star since school has no good days. Little star mother desperately chicken baby, pay close attention to learning, but little star is not good at learning children, learn some knowledge is very laborious. Small star also obedient, let learn to learn, also do not work against adults, but the results did not improve.
Math is not good, calculate the number to the brain always turn around; Chinese is not good, pinyin can not remember, the word always forget; English is not good, the effort to learn the sentence turned to forget. Little star mother is also very breakdown, staring at homework to nine o 'clock every night, almost every day to little star beat and scold, once little star even scared to pee pants, grandma looking on the side, but dare not say.
What a stifling education! I have mixed feelings. I feel sorry for Xiao Xing. Some kids just can't learn. That doesn't drive them crazy! Adults have three hundred and sixty lines, but our children have only one track to learn! Everyone rolls like hell, and then everything's all right in the end? And have a happy life? Who knows what life will bring in the future? The child is still so small, must let him taste the sweet life, find the beauty of life, do a healthy person!
Spare yourself and your children...
她是我的邻居，她的儿子小星与我儿子一样大。
小星上幼儿园的时候，是个胖乎乎的男孩，圆圆的脸蛋，大大的眼睛，非常可爱。小星运动细胞并不发达，不擅长运动，也不调皮捣蛋，更喜欢自己躲在一边玩玩具。小星爱笑，很有礼貌，每次见了面总是愉快地打招呼：“阿姨好！”！小星上面还有个姐姐，小星妈妈告诉我：“大宝照书养，二宝当猪养。姐姐那时候什么都要最好的，现在小星都无所谓了，不用养得那么精细，反倒省心省力，小星吃得香睡得好，比姐姐皮实多了！”
圆润润的、爱笑的、有礼貌的小星，任谁见了都会觉得，这是个在幸福中成长的孩子。
现在小星上小学一年级了。然而，他的外貌变得判若两人，生活也发生了翻天覆地的变化。
上次见了小星，我差点没认出来。小星瘦了很多，目测轻了十斤以上。原本胖乎乎的身材，如今已是偏瘦。小星走路低着头看地面，见了人表情木木的，眼里没有了光。
从奶奶口中，了解到小星自从上学就再没有什么好日子了。小星妈妈拼命鸡娃，狠抓学习，无奈小星是那种不擅长学习的孩子，学点知识十分费劲。小星也听话，让学就学，也不跟大人对着干，可就是成绩没有起色。
数学不行，算起数来脑子总是转不过弯；语文不行，拼音记不住，字总是忘；英语不行，费了九牛二虎之力学会的句子转头就忘。小星妈妈也很崩溃，每天晚上盯作业到九点多，几乎天天对小星打骂，有一次小星甚至吓得尿了裤子，奶奶在一旁看着，心如刀绞却不敢说。
这令人窒息的教育啊！我百感交集，为小星感到心疼。有的孩子就是怎么学也学不会，那也不能把他逼疯啊！大人尚且有三百六十行，我们的孩子，却只有学习这一条赛道！人人拼命地卷，卷到最后就万事大吉了吗？就能有幸福的生活了吗？谁知道未来的生活变成什么样呢？孩子还这么小，总得让他尝尝生活的甜，发现生活的美，做个身心健康的人吧！
放过自己，也放过孩子吧……
