言传身教才是孩子人生中的第一堂课‖Teaching by example is the first lesson in a child's life

Today, I attended a wedding banquet and sat next to a grandma with two granddaughters. I felt that such a grandma really did not deserve to take children.

The grandmother brought two granddaughters, according to her, the older is 8 years old, the younger is 5 years old. The child's parents are working in other places, usually always follow the grandparents.

On the banquet table, there are two plates of melon seeds, two plates of candy, and two boxes of cigarettes. The two children did not even bother to sit down, and the little one reached up and put the cigarettes in his pocket, one box in each pocket.

The big one is not to be outdone, took out the convenient bag from the pocket, and laid hands on two plates of candy, and soon all packed into the convenient bag, and did not leave anyone.

The two children are skilled, it seems that it is not the first time to do, especially the small one, if the child gluttony can be understood, then she should aim at the candy, but she took the smoke must be adults told in advance.

A table of us looked at each other, and the child's grandmother talked and laughed calmly, without a word to stop.

When the food came to the table, the grandmother's performance was even more surprising, filling the plate in front of her and the plates of her two granddaughters with meat, several plates have been completely taken by her. Then do not eat a bite, handy to take out a convenient bag, the big granddaughter to hold the bag, she poured into, with skilled tacit understanding. After pouring, he began to eat a lot with his two granddaughters.

I looked dumbfounded, before on the small video brush this situation, I always thought it was to make traffic, did not expect to open your eyes today.

But the grandmother did not think that she would ruin the child's life by telling him so. It doesn't matter if she's old enough to have a thick skin. Can two children in general have a good life to go, being taught will only take a small advantage after how to foothold in society?

The child's parents struggle outside, if they know that grandma takes the child like this, how should they feel?

Teaching by example is the first lesson in a child's life, will the children brought out by such an old man become a copy of her?

今天参加了场婚宴，身旁坐了个带着两孙女的奶奶，感觉这样的奶奶真的不配带孩子。

奶奶带的两个孙女，据她说大的8岁，小的5岁。孩子的父母都在外地打工，平时一直跟着爷爷奶奶。

婚宴的酒桌上照惯例放着两盘瓜子icon，两盘糖果，两盒烟。两个孩子根本就没顾得上坐下，小的伸手就把烟拿起来放衣服口袋里了，左右口袋各一盒。

大的更是不甘示弱，从口袋中拿出方便袋，冲着两盘糖果就下了手，沒一会儿全打包到方便袋里了，一点都没给别人留。

两个孩子动作娴熟，看样子绝非第一次干，特别是那小的，如果孩子贪吃还可以理解，那她该冲着糖果下手，可她拿烟肯定是大人事先嘱咐好的。

我们一桌人看得面面相觑，而孩子的奶奶谈笑自若，没有一句制止的话。

等到菜品上了桌，这个奶奶的表现更让人大跌眼镜，把自己面前的盘子和两个孙女的盘子挟满了肉品，有几个盘子已经全被她挟光了。然后一口不吃，随手掏出方便袋，大孙女撑袋，她往里倒，配合熟练默契。倒完以后，才开始和两个孙女大吃特吃起来。

我看得目瞪口呆，以前在小视频上刷过这种情形，我一直以为是摆拍赚流量，沒想到今天开了眼了。

只是这奶奶想沒想到，她这样教唆孩子会毁了孩子一生。她老了脸皮厚不厚无所谓了，顶多赚个为老不尊。可两个花骨朵一般的孩子还有大好的人生路要走，被教导的只会占小便宜以后怎么在社会上立足？

孩子的父母在外拼搏，如果知道奶奶这样带孩子该做如何感想？

言传身教才是孩子人生中的第一堂课，这样的老人带出来的孩子会不会成了她的翻版？

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