Dear Friends,
How are you all? I hope you all are safe. Today I come with a subject that is very familiar nowadays.
But when I was a child, I didn't even hear the word understanding was far away.
Times went by, and I started understanding the meaning of depression.
And now I found some reason behind it. Why? a few people went through depression; before sharing, I like to say this is my perception.
Maybe a few people do not agree with my opinion. I can share what I experienced. No one can realize another person's struggle.
I found a few points, or you can say reasons of depression:-
1.Rejection
2.Unable to fulfill dreams
3.Unable to express disliking
4.Demotivation
5.Introverted
6.Domestic violence.
1.Rejection:- This is the main reason for depression. We are not habituated with the word 'NO.' We always expect after doing our job positive feedback.
We are not ready to accept our faults. Our concept is pretty simple; what I have done is the best. We are not inclined to take any negative comments against our activity.
And when we need to face them automatically, depression comes as a result.
2.Unable to fulfill dreams:- This is another reason for depression. In this young generation, that reason is quite popular.
Let me clear you, for example:- when between a group of friends all of a sudden a friend bought a costly bike but among them, a friend also had a wish to buy the same bike but, somehow he is not capable of buying it, that time the person goes with depression.
Sometimes a person wants to make his /her career in a particular field. But due to family pressure, they are bound to choose another that could also be a reason for depression.
3.Unable to express disliking:- That is a serious issue, and I like to be aware of every mother as a social worker. That unfortunately happened with girls. Many of you may, aware of 'Good touch' and 'Bad touch.'
Teach your daughter about the same.
I saw many children go through this problem where, unfortunately, they were molested; by their family members.
But they are unable to express their disliking because mothers try to cover them by saying that was love.
Try to listen and understand your child. Whoever the person is but as a mother;
We should always teach our children to raise their voices against any dislikings. When a person can't express their dislikings, depression enters into life.
4.Demotivation:- I discussed in my earlier post, words are sharper than a knife. So we must be careful before speaking.
I shared with you when parents compare one child with another in terms of merit, intelligence. That time the child with less merit always goes through depression because of demotivation.
That does not happen with the child only when we do not get the appreciation we deserve; it also hurts us, and the cause is sometimes brought depression.
5.Introvert:- Many of us do not like to express our feelings in front of anyone. Many of us do not like to share our sorrow, our disliking with anyone. Those who cry, scream, shout and express their frustration and for that reason, depression can't touch them badly like those who can't express like that.
6.Domestic violence:- That is another dangerous reason for depression. A healthy home atmosphere is most important for a child and every member of the family to live a healthy life.
Many times patients fight in front of the children and the reason brings depression in their children's life.
I hope my post has a piece of useful information. Thank you for going through my post.
I also like encouragement to do better work in the future.
That's all from my side. Stay blessed.