You must learn to call your distractions by their names and always remind yourself they are not exactly you.
No matter how close a significant other, your stories hangs under your name just like your epitaph hangs once your journey ends.
What's your personal vision and not the duties collectively agreed you'd be good in.
Do you know how human clones are made?
Yeah, it actually brought order to the system, because I can't imagine the world with over 99% of her population having a mind of their own...