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Becoming the person you want to be takes work. It's a journey, and it takes work. Don't expect it to be easy, and expect many to see the positive changes in you.
Sometimes we see a friend or family member change, and we are surprised. We made a plan and executed and we got validation that this effort was worth it. Personal growth is noticeable and often jarring to those who expect us to act a certain way. They knew us before the changes came.
To become the person we want to be, we need to identify our dreams and aspirations and make a concrete plan. When people are surprised at positive changes, it's because a major effort.has been made, and a superior undertaking has been orchestrated.
Many on social media become obsessed with the opinions of "haters", and when positive changes are made dissidents will arise. Do your best to take the high road and indulged in your new position. This positive change has been seen, acknowledged and validated, and it's a great first step to powerful changes.
I think I agree with this particular part of your post,People around us may be surprised when we experience personal development and make great improvement toward our goals. If the improvement is a positive one,people in our lives may be surprised by how we have changed from the versions of ourselves to whom they have been accustomed. It is very important to come to the realization that frequently, their responses are influenced by how they believe others should react to us....nice Post
Agreed!