Little Children Ask and Must Be Obeyed

It's normal for children to cry, but if it's too often, even in small things, sometimes it makes parents upset. Especially when her whining goes on all day for no reason. Dealing with a crybaby does require patience and a certain way.

The cry of a child often makes parents or other people who hear it irritated. If only occasionally, it is very natural because children are learning to recognize emotions. But what if it's too often so that the child tends to be whiny.

Most parents have experienced this. Your child wants something, and tries to get it by whining and crying non-stop. Sometimes, the whining even escalates to a tantrum. Not only annoying, this behavior can cause your child to become spoiled if left unchecked.

Sometimes, a child's request is something that is natural, but the way he asks is not appropriate. If your child whines to add to his drink, tell him that they have to politely ask before you fulfill his request.

Most parents start giving their children pocket money. There is no 'right time' to start giving your child an allowance, but when your child begins to understand that money can buy them the things they want, it means they are ready for an allowance. It teaches them to keep and buy the things they want for themselves.

If your child really wants something, you can tell them that they can wait until their birthday or other holiday. That way, your child can learn to be patient, and you don't have to make unplanned expenses.

If what your child is asking for is something reasonable, save it for some time and you can bargain with him. If your child wants ice cream, for example, tell him to eat vegetables. If he wants another toy but you think he has more than enough, tell him to give some of his unused toys to a child who needs it more.

Crying is not always caused by spoiled children. When a child is whiny, it could be because he lacks confidence when hanging out or playing with his friends.

Not infrequently, they will try to cry or whine as a sign of asking parents or caregivers for help, for the problems they are facing. To overcome this, try to accompany him when he plays with his friends. It doesn't need to be all day long, just in the early moments he plays.

You can introduce your child to friends and stay with your little one, so you can still be with him when he feels insecure.