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Sometimes, we feel empty with little or no strength to keep pushing, we make every effort to get strength from here and there but it was all to no avail. We feel weak to the extent that it is difficult to gather any form of strength no matter how hard we try. But, maybe you do not have to seek for these strength from elsewhere apart from you. The strength you seek may be right inside of you but you are yet to identify and trigger it.
On a daily basis, you need to refresh your memory about how strong you are and make efforts to make it happen. You need to tell yourself that you possess so much strength in you to conquer the world. These daily self affirmations are important to boost your self-esteem and also encourage you to utilize the strength that is embedded in you. You can say these words to yourself in front of your mirror every morning when you wake up and every night before you go to bed.
However, it does not mean that you have to endure pains because you want to show that you are strong or hiding your feelings. This is an unhealthy display of strength. If you are in a relationship or in a job where you are not happy, you can quit instead of trying to be strong when in actual fact you are dying inside. Also, there are times that you may need to weep or show your displeasure about certain things, do not hold it back because you want people to see you as a strong person.
Strong people have feelings as well and there is no crime in letting those feelings out because if they are bottled up for too long they are going to explode. However, the real strength does not lie in showing those emotions only but also accepting, and facing the situation as it is. It may hurt badly if you try to hide your emotions because they'd surely come back to hurt you in multiple folds. Strong people also break down but they don't stay down, they get back on their feet - that is strength!
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Strength is in knowing that you have far more great potential than staying down when life knocks you down. Remember that you have passed through difficult phases in your life at one point or another and you were able to come out strong, this should be able to serve as a motivation for you that you can face anything that will come your way.
You need to know that you can't always rely on strength from people, you've got all you need in you. People are going to fail you, they are going to disappoint you, they are going to dash your hope. When we expect too much from other people we tend to discover that we can't always depend on them for our strengths. It is just like finding the right thing in the wrong place. Inner strength is beautiful because it is always in there, all that is needed is for it to be ignited.
Thank you for your time lovelies.
The post is originally written by me 💕@debbie-ese💕
