“Life is not easy for any of us. But what of that? We must have perseverance and above all confidence in ourselves. We must believe that we are gifted for something, and that this thing, at whatever cost, must be attained." – Marie Curie
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One of the most important qualities that a person must possess in order to achieve total happiness and contentment in life is self-confidence. Self-confidence refers to an individual's belief that they have the ability to accomplish tasks and overcome challenges. These challenges could be any number of things, such as performing well at school, work, building a house or business, etc.
Often, it is easier for someone to have more confidence in others than in themselves. This is not healthy. Self-confidence is what gives people the drive to work toward their goals and the perseverance to continue when difficulties arise. It makes people feel good about themselves. Those that are self-confident are happier and are able to achieve their goals more easily.
To avoid feeling like the victim in life and gaining more self-confidence with each passing day, you have to learn to adapt and expect the unexpected in life. Becoming self-organized and practicing good time management when it comes to completing projects or getting rid of unnecessary problems and time-wasting activities in your life will help you to learn to adapt and gain the self-confidence you need to be a victor in life.
Self-confidence is a must-have in the corporate world. If a person lacks this important quality then they are usually overlooked when it comes time for promotions, raises and special assignments. People without self-confidence are less noticeable to their supervisors; they merely sit quietly in the background, ignored.
Employees with self-confidence are more articulated, motivated and ambitious. They work hard to achieve their work-related goals. They feel good about themselves and their ability to perform their jobs. The corporate world is extremely competitive and does not wait around for the meek to gain self-esteem. This is why, if a person wants to be successful, they must first work on improving their self-confidence.
Here are 10 ways to boost your self-confidence:
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1. Improve your physical appearance
If you feel good about your outward appearance then you are likely to feel the same inwardly. Exercising your body, eating properly and dressing well are excellent ways of doing this.
2. Concentrate on achieving small incremental goals
Focusing on smaller successes create the feeling of consistent accomplishment and allows you to tackle larger challenges over time.
3. Avoid procrastination
When a person is stressed they don't operate at their highest level. Get on your tasks immediately and you will find that you have more successes and less anxiety.
4. Help others when they're in need
Lending a hand naturally makes everyone feel good. It boosts self-confidence to see that someone is better off because of something that you did to help. It may be something small major; it doesn't matter because even the little things count.
5. Learn a new skill
Nothing makes you feel more confident than when you master something new. Take time to invest in yourself to build your self-confidence.
6. Don't beat yourself up
Don't concentrate on your weaknesses. Work to exclude negativity from your life. Focus on the positive things you have done or going to do.
7.Develop a clear plan
Take time to create a plan to accomplish your goals. Nothing is more damaging to self-confidence than failure. So take the time to create a plan for your success.
8. Increase your network
You are an image of those you associate with. Enhance relationships with people who have the self-confidence characteristics you are looking to attain. A rising tide lifts all ships.
9. Be grateful
Sometime our vision is clouded by feelings of self-pity. Take time to evaluate all of the things you have to be grateful for and then be truly thankful.
10. Motivational speech
Give yourself a boost of motivation, self-confidence and inspiration by listening to the insights and expertise of a trained motivational speaker or trainer.
The path to self-confidence is continuous. Work diligently, using these techniques, to boost your self-esteem. You will find that the benefits of high self-esteem are endless.
This article was also originally published here by me.