Yes he does seem to have completely changed but I am not as forgiving as you. From past experience it doesn't pay to be nice to those who attack you. It just makes them angrier. My way of staying out is to block them all, a bit like the naughty step lol. I will wait for an apology and only then think about talking again. I have my own sanity to protect. I'm one tough cookie and love a good debate but what he did was not debate. It was 'my way or the highway' when his highway was very dodgy.
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I’m forgiving at a distance I haven’t even seen or read the post and just don’t engage if he wishes to apologise and accept that he got the wrong end of the stick completely and was just in a bad place I’ll be like ok cool. Otherwise then I’ll forgive from a distance haha it’s much lighter on the soul to not hold a grudge it’s like holding burning coals as they say. I’m sure he thinks he’s done nothing wrong at all tho so I’ll be waiting a long time. Haha I even apologised if he missunderstood my message so I did more than my part haha
Oh I'm not holding a grudge and yes I know all about the power of forgiveness I just do not want to talk to someone who is so stuck in his own issues. Like you say just keeping a distance. Don't need it, I have enough dealing with other things more important to me than this. As do you.
yeah same as I keep a distance from the faggot guy as you can't have any kind of rational debate with someone who calls you a faggot in every reply lol and a bunch of other profanities
yeh I muted him too. I see he's commented umpteen times on my latest but not sure he realises I don't read any of his insipid bull any more, he's just talking to himself.
yeah I see some notifications but I don't open them, I just guess I am getting called a faggot lol
sad little manchild
I wonder what the record is for comments on blurt coz its at 190 now and I can only see about 10 so all the others must be from muted eejits. If I break the record can I get a badge?
Lololol! "It's not me its you". Classic deflection. They're forgiven and forgotten, ignore, lol!
How does one apologize about something you hold them responsible for? "I apologize you think something that I didn't mean to make you think", that's how.
You either apologize for what you did, what you said, or you simply insult the other by apologizing for what they heard and interpreted.