A family lives on three floors in our flat.
They have a son.
I went to their house yesterday.
I shared with you some words of that boy's mother.
He said, "This is the situation of my two-year-old child's toy car. Even though there are so many cars, when he goes to the market, he wants to buy the same car at home. We are forced to buy it, so what is the way to avoid it?"
I thought to myself - parents who would do so much to satisfy the unnecessary hobbies of a two-year-old child - when parents refuse to buy a motorcycle for their teenage son, the child will naturally choose to commit suicide. While one's achievement as a child skyrockets, one's underachievement in the teenage years makes one humanly depressed. And teenage is such a sensitive age where the response of the regime will bring nothing but harm, then only motivation will work, but how to motivate this depressed child?
It is true that it is very difficult as a parent not to satisfy any excuse of the child, but it is wrong for the parents to satisfy the ambition of the child in the name of excuse and make him reckless. It is also important to teach the child a sense of moderation and that from a very young age. He will buy what he needs, but what he doesn't need, he has at home, why should he buy it again?
Being complacent is one of the best qualities of a human being No matter how much money you own, give your child the virtue of small indulgences. Remove from him this reckless feeling in childhood that he cannot get anything but the essentials from what he wants. For this, no matter how earnest he is or how much he cries, we will not help his mind to become careless.
What I realized from the above incident:
Tolerable deprivation is better than the attainment that increases a man's arrogance.
When everything is obtained, there is no more life in that getting, so incomplete satisfaction again causes life.
It may be so, the success of these children started by not getting it. So failure does not mean failure. Rather the beginning of something new.