家庭教育之“创意大赛”：飞机背后的思索 Home Education "Creative Competition" : The thinking behind the plane

I am very glad to participate in this interesting "creative competition"! With the theme of "plane ✈️", all fields can participate in this event, think of the heart is not small excitement! Full of expectations and aspirations! Also sincerely hope to see other areas of creative masterpieces! Here I am, in the field of "education" to take part in this great event! Thank you @Epistem for hosting this event

The details are linked here:

https://blurt.blog/blurt/@epistem/introducing-the-epistem-rare-creativity-contest-win-lots-of-blurts-and-upvotes-weekly-by-participating-in-this-contest

Son with scheming toys, actually let me temporarily do not know how to open!

Here's the thing. The neighbor kid little potato comes to my house to play, the two children have fun. After a while, my son came to me and said, "Mom, potatoes broke my plane!" I said, "Fix it and see if you can fix it!" "No," said the son, "because it is broken off." I think my son's tone is quite calm, although I must have a small regret, but there is no big waves. I said: "That you play with other toys!"

The children have gone to play with other toys. Everything seemed normal. Until Tudou's mother came to my house to pick up Tudou, we sat down on the sofa and talked.

The son suddenly walked to the front of mother Potato, holding a broken plane: "Aunt, potatoes broke my plane!"

Mother Potato: "Oh! Let me see if I can fix it for you!"

His son sighed sadly, "No more! It's been ripped off! I can't play anymore! This plane is my favorite! Oh, HOW sorry I am!"

Potato mother felt ashamed: "Small open, really too embarrassed! I'll buy you a new one, ok?"

I was really blown away by this scene! Is this my son? Is he a showman? Just as if nothing had happened, this will be in front of the family parents on the lovely and pitiful, as if how wronged!

How can I have the nerve to let someone pay for it! I said: "Potato mother, don't buy! Kids play around with each other and don't care."

Potato mother idea has decided: "No, is the potato broke the toy, should give small open a new! I also education potato, later broke other people's toys, will compensate!"

A few days later, the potato mother did bring a better plane. The son was so excited that he spent the whole day studying the new toy.

I always feel like I should talk to my son about it, but it's hard to explain.

"Xiao Kai, I don't think it's good for you to ask Mother Potato for toys."

Son: "I did not want! She insisted on it!"

"But Mother Potato feels bad when you say so."
"It was the potato that broke it!"

"Did you break potato's toys when you played at his house?"

'No!

"Remember, in the future if you broke the potato's toy, must take the initiative to tell me, we also want to compensate for the potato, ok?"

"Got it! The son is busy with his toys again.

He's not even six years old! My feeling is that after a midlife crisis, I have an educational crisis! The child day by day progress, more and more scheming, ability is stronger and stronger, I want to keep pace with The Times, self-improvement, keep up with his pace of growth! Constantly improve the struggle experience and game level! Otherwise, you'll be playing fast and loose!