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  ·  3 years ago  ·  

Ha it's fine, as long as he is making CONSCIOUS choices. He might change for you.


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  ·  3 years ago  ·  

Oh no, i gave up that pattern! Hopeing that they will change for me. . . .BS. . .it never works. . .
I used to chose the worst possible man, and give them my trust they will change: i changed, i gone mad!!! But im back, and im more clever now . . .

  ·  3 years ago  ·  

Awesome. I've always chosen pretty trustworthy and decent men, just didn't quite nail it until I met Jamie - he had damage like the best of us but it was damage I could handle and very full on love for each other made everything awesome and compromisable and we worked it all out together (and still are - relationships take work, forever!). Good luck! Definitely sorting your own shit out helps.

  ·  3 years ago  ·  

I love to hear your story 🙏🏻 and I am really happy for you. You deserve a good man.
I actually am really happy on my own atm. I have so much freedom and i really enjoy life. I always been quite self sufficient, and enjoy spending time with myself. Life is good.

  ·  3 years ago  ·  

And wait whose post are we hijacking - I've forgotten where I am...

  ·  3 years ago  ·  

LoL, yeah i forgotten about that, but its @ajerkoff, he wont mind our girly chat here 😅💜

  ·  3 years ago  ·  

Well his name is a dead giveaway :P

  ·  3 years ago  ·  

You're a Pisces, I get that :P

YOur true love should allow you to be who you are and love you because of, and despite of, any idiosyncracies.

I always been quite self sufficient, and enjoy spending time with myself

Me too. But I"m a Libran so I have this need for balance, when I love nothing more than depending on my man as much as I love fucking off and doing my own thing for days on end and sleeping the spare room coz I need my space after hours of snuggling on the couch !

  ·  3 years ago  ·  

Tbh what you described as your balance is pretty much my dream 😅 i mean i will never live with a man again unless theres a spare room i can sleep when i need.

  ·  3 years ago  ·  

HHaha I get two rooms, a yoga room that doubles as my apocathery and mushroom growing space and my bedroom, and he gets his man shed and the main bedroom. And our house isn't even that big!