昨天晚上吃完饭后，大宝就出去玩了，玩了一会就自己回来了。回来的时候满头大汗，衣服都湿透了，“咕咚咕咚”的喝了好多水。天热了，一运动就会出好多汗，还会口干舌燥。喝完水他也不想再出去了，我们就一块看会视频休息休息。
我们看的一些教育方面的视频，希望他也能有所感悟，当看到一个关于不能打骂孩子的视频的时候，他竟然哭了。视频里面讲了打骂孩子会对孩子造成的不良影响，看他哭了，我就问他“是不是以前爸爸打骂过你，你想起来难过委屈了。”他摇摇头说不是，看他不想继续谈论，我们就没再继续这个话题。只是我没想到他会这么敏感，以后确实需要注意自己的言行举止，还是不要给他的心里留下不好的影响。
我们其实都是为了孩子好，怕他学一些不好的习惯，有时候情绪克制不住难免会打骂孩子，事后想想确实挺后悔的，这种方法其实并不可取，还是应该多一些耐心，多和他交流沟通，学会和他做朋友，而不是用大人的身份整天去教育他，希望他能快快乐乐的成长。
After dinner last night, Dabao went out to play, and after playing for a while, he came back by himself. When I came back, I was sweating, my clothes were soaked, and I drank a lot of water. When it's hot, you will sweat a lot when you exercise, and your mouth will be dry. After drinking water, he doesn't want to go out again, so we'll watch the video together and have a rest.
We watched some educational videos, and I hope he can feel something. When he saw a video about not being able to beat and scold children, he actually cried. The video talked about the bad effects that beating and scolding children will have on children. After watching him cry, I asked him, "Did my father beat and scold you before, and you feel sad and wronged when you think of it?" He shook his head and saidno. Seeing that he didn't want to continue talking, we didn't continue this topic. I just didn't expect him to be so sensitive. I really need to pay attention to his words and deeds in the future, or don't leave a bad influence on his heart.
In fact, we are all for the good of our children, fearing that they will learn some bad habits. Sometimes, when they can't restrain their emotions, they will inevitably beat and scold them. In hindsight, it is really regrettable. This method is actually not advisable. We should be more patient, communicate with him more, learn to be friends with him, instead of educating him as an adult all day, hoping that he can grow up happily.
