We were together for so long, he used to be so caring and loving, he was everything I wanted in a man I couldn't have asked for anyone better, he was my knight in shining armour.
A few years in the relationship, I started to notice a change in his attitude, though my friends saw this before now, they warned me but I never listened because I was so much in love.
The first time he hit me, I didnt take it serious because I was thinking it was my fault, maybe I must had really gotten him angry. But that was how it all started, gradually the beating was now a normal thing and if I dare deny him of sex, he rapes me
I got sick and had an operation on my fallopian tube, I was told to stay away from sex for a while, but he couldn't wait for me to heal completely, he suggested I see a doctor which I did. I was injected so I could satisfy him but I have never been myself since then
A few weeks on, I found out that I could no longer bear a child and I was devastated. When I shared my pain with him, he told me there was no way things would work out between us, that he wanted children and there's no way I could bear one. What a man!!, thats the same man that destroyed me, i wish i had listened to my friends when i had the chance, i wouldnt be going through this pains in my life.
STAY AWAY FROM ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP
SAY NO TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
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Estuvimos juntos durante tanto tiempo, solía ser tan cariñoso y cariñoso, era todo lo que quería en un hombre que no podría haber pedido a nadie mejor, era mi caballero de brillante armadura.
Después de algunos años de relación, comencé a notar un cambio en su actitud, aunque mis amigos lo vieron antes, me advirtieron, pero nunca escuché porque estaba muy enamorado.
La primera vez que me golpeó, no me lo tomé en serio porque estaba pensando que era mi culpa, tal vez realmente lo debí haber hecho enojar. Pero así fue como empezó todo, poco a poco los golpes se convirtieron en algo normal y si me atrevo a negarle el sexo, me viola
Me enfermé y tuve una operación en mi trompa de Falopio, me dijeron que me mantuviera alejada del sexo por un tiempo, pero él no podía esperar a que me curara por completo, me sugirió que viera a un médico, lo cual hice. Me inyectaron para poder satisfacerlo pero nunca he sido yo mismo desde entonces
Pocas semanas después, descubrí que ya no podía tener un hijo y estaba devastada. Cuando compartí mi dolor con él, me dijo que no había forma de que las cosas entre nosotros funcionaran, que quería hijos y que no había forma de que yo pudiera tener uno. ¡¡Qué hombre!!, ese es el mismo hombre que me destruyó, desearía haber escuchado a mis amigos cuando tuve la oportunidad, no estaría pasando por estos dolores en mi vida.
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Love is truly blind and can make one foolish even while in an abusive relationship. The first sign is always a warning to take heed of your life before it´s too late.
Yes, that's true.