Well I think domestic violence shouldn't be a thing in a relationship or marriage because with the little knowledge I have. To be married or in a relationship means that you have invested feelings for each other and therefore you should be able to talk things through if u have misunderstandings, it is said that the talks precede the guns in a fight if the situation degenarates to the extent of an abuse then there is a big problem . I think domestic violence is bad in any scenarios, spouses should be able to communicate effectively and try to understand each other better if it is not the case then there's no need for the relationship or the marriage.
Well I think it is possible buh very unlikely that an abuser will change over time .
If your in a relationship where your being abused and you've tried to talk to the abuser and the abuse continues it will be in your beat interest to leave the relationship or marriage
This is my opinion on this matter.
I think what you say is very correct:
Because if we talk and we are on the same page and committed to the relationship, it would hardly be possible to generate a situation of domestic violence; what happens is that we don't always know how to speak, communicate effectively, that's why it's so important to be aware of our learning and how they influence our emotions. I also think that it is very unlikely that an abuser will stop being an abuser, once that barrier is breached, it is unlikely that the abuser will turn back.