In life, change is the only thing that is constant,and it's either you or things change from good to bad or from bad to good. However I will be sharing with you some areas I have changed for good, it's my personal growth and hopefully , you will learn from me.
Five to ten years ago, there are some areas of my personal life that growth has taken place. When I look back to those years, I smile at my mistakes and still smile at my growth so far. So journey with me as I discuss some of this personal growth of mine.
Conflict is a part and parcel of life. Believe it or not but the most important thing is the ability to resolve conflicts and be more happy.
Eight years ago when I got married newly , I remember having some misunderstanding that lingers before getting it resolved. I will be claiming Mrs. right and same to my hubby who also claims Mr. right. No one wants to be the first to apologize until the qaurrel keep birthing other issues; this becomes an unhealthy relationship for us . So one day, deep inside of me I had a self examination, self growth out of immaturity and a shift in the mindset about agreement and disagreement. I discovered that solving a conflict almost immediately is more healthy to avoid unnecessary escalation of the conflict. I try as much as I can to apologize wether I am the one at fault or not inorder to have peace and not long, my hubby followed suit and emulated this character and we kept growing together.
I have come to realize that the better decision we make today determines our lifestyle in the future. 10 years ago, what bothers me was majorly fashion🤦, how to belong and look classy like Lekki wives! But now, thank God for my personal growth of mindset. Fashion is good , it's good to always look nice but c'mon, INVESTMENT should be our driving force and every other things can follow. I have taken a drastic step of investing the much I can in a legit business instead of the other way round .
Procrastination is a habit I battled with 5years back. I think I was lazy enough then and procrastinate at every given task. But now, my personal growth has touch this part of my life. I now strive to make use of my time effectively and flee from procrastination . I achieved that by writing out what I want to achieve on daily basis in my diary and each one I do, I will go thick it and will be eager to have all my written out tasks ticked good✅. I learnt this from my Boss two years ago and it's working for me like magic .
The best thing that has happened to me so far is that I fell in love with my God. I have established a deep relationship with Him unlike 10years ago. I think life challenges helped me to go much closer to God and I am not regretting this decision. It's part of my personal growth that I cherish so much. I took a step of constant studying of the scripture and prays continually and within a short time, it became part of me that if I don't do these daily , I will feel a vacuum in my inner spirit .
There are other areas of my life I have experienced a personal growth but permit me to stop here till we meet next.
Thanks for reading and I do hope you got a little value .
Remember to keep staying positive and be happy 💕❣️🥰
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