Love describe to be both positive and Negative with its virtues showing human kindness. Love covers a range of positive and strong emotional,mental and state well being. No one can deal without love. Love is seen on day to day activities, in families, at the place of work.
One of the issues that every youth faces everyday is not falling in love with His/Her and sometimes its makes life difficult for ourselves.
You can fall in love by accepting what you are and loving who you are.
A quote says Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world. for you to live long in this presented dispensation is to love your self first. Loving yourself first is by saying no to inferiority complex, failure, self deception, know your worth and acknowledge who you are. You are worth more than gold.
Ways to fall in love with your self
1. Accepting who you are and what you are:know that there is no man on this planet earth that was born perfect. In the journey of their lives, there was a time they make mistakes because they understood the word accepting who you are they said no to failure.
Self-love does not mean that one is selfish rather it means you are saying no to down fall. Connect to things that bring out the best in you be it behaviour, career, association. Say no to humiliation and insult. In this journey of life I have realise that lack of self love leads to humiliation and insult when I realise that I said no since then no more humiliation and insult.
Identity your weakness, know your imperfections and don't compare yourself to anybody. Take every failure as a stepping stone to your success.
2. Accepting things about yourself that you can’t change:
There are some things one can't change in life, for example you are short and want to be tall in life. Instead tell your self that yourself that your shortness has a purpose and that purpose must be achieved in spite of all.
Accepting your flaws is the best way to love your self the most. Our flaws are not to make us bad rather to bring out the best in us.
3. Apologising to yourself:
Like the way we wrong people and tend to ask for forgiveness from them. Do the same thing to yourself. Be comfortable to accept that you wrong yourself, and find strength in knowing that, it doesn’t define you.
In your quite time ,write a letter of apology to your self ,in it stating where and how you wrong yourself and how sorry you are and you will make it up for yourself.
4. Forgiving your past mistakes:
Learn to forgive yourself and learn to learn from them.
Your past mistakes should not determine how your future should be. Peace of mind is what you need to get over your past,when you learn to forgive your past mistakes.
Redirect every negative thoughts about your self and focus on the better picture about yourself.
5. No more comparison:
If you must love yourself always decline comparison with others. You need to know that you having a running mate in this life,that you are the owner of yourself. Comparing your self to others will only bring humiliation and inferiority complex.
Look at their success as an encouragement to do more. Create a better picture of your self in your mind. Be the best friend to your self
6.Be comfortable in your own skin:
Have regular exercises, good sleep,eat good food,dress well,feed your mind with good thoughts, don't mind about what others think about you, mind what you think about yourself. Pay attention to your self know when you need rest. Stroll around, have fun,visit cinemas and grab a glass of juice.
7. Invest in something you love or good at:
Invest in something you love doing be It career, hobby, charity, or skills you want to learn or do. Take your time and explore more in what makes you happy all the time and always remember your happy moment.
8. Keep your environment clean:
There is a saying that says cleanliness is next to Godliness. I encourage every youth to keep its surrounding clean. Put your room in order, add air fresher.
9. Be thankful:
Develop the attitude of saying ** thank you so much** to every opportunity that comes your way,including your family and friends. Let thanks giving should always part of your life thereby bringing more favours and blessings to your life.
10. Learn and grow:
learn from whatever that happened you in life and move on. Visualize the kind of person you want yo be in 5 years and work towards it,read books,seek advice when necessary,and practice them.
11. Music:
Listen to music that improves self-love, which mellows you out and gives you room to stay on a good track. listen to music that improves the best in you. Those music gives you to ability to stay on the right track. Music like,
survivor by destiny’s child
new rule by Dua lipa and others
Remember you are the best and always perfect.