They cut men some slacks but they would not extend the same courtesy to the women.

Not at all. In fact it's the other way around.

I have something for you to dwell on: Women can rape as well. They can rape men and other women.

At least if the rape law was gender neutral. Which in most countries it is not. Try reading the rape law of your country and consider the following: Would a women putting a knife at a man throat and tell him to get it hard be considered rape under the law of your country?

What about a woman forcing herself on another women? Lesbians are pretty pushy.