YUL, POLYGAMY AND ALLIED MATTERS
Any man who knows he'll marry more than one wife should tell his girlfriend before engaging her to marry. If she agrees and is cool with that, go ahead. IT IS VERY WRONG TO PULL THE POLYGAMY STUNT MIDWAY.
There is also those who say if you don't give your husband peace at home, he'll seek it outside and marry another. THAT IS BS in my opinion because OUTSIDE ALWAYS FEELS GOOD UNTIL YOU BRING OUTSIDE INSIDE. I've never known a bitter enmity and rivalry like it is amongst step-siblings as they're born into a competitive environment one forged by their mothers- THIS IS WHY I HATE POLYGAMY.
Human relations aren't suppose to be smooth and sweet all the time. It isn't even amongst siblings. Siblings can give the other a kidney or any other organ to live but would fight over one using the others charger, cream, clothes, shoes, etc. Would still gossip each other amongst themselves, tell on each other to Mum and Dad. So why haven't they gone outside to get other sibling(s) and discard the one(s) they have since it's not peaceful and smooth? Do they love each other? YES! So why do they do all the above listed and more to each other? BECAUSE RELATIONSHIPS AREN'T SUPPOSED TO BE SWEET ALL THE TIME!
Pulling such stunt on your wife midway can make her mental health unstable for live, reduce or totally kill her self worth/esteem. IT IS WRONG!
I may be wrong, or infact I am wrong. But my opinion is that Yul is a politician now so maybe he only hurried to marry her to justify his cheating so that we wouldn't be discussing how long she's been a side chick, how long he's been cheating, etc. PERIODT!
To the rest of us men out there, please let's never do this.
Now let's get some balance. YUL wouldn't have a second wife if any the single ladies never agreed to be his wife. Women are women's problem sometimes.
DON'T HURT OTHERS WHILE PLEASING YOURSELF. ESPECIALLY THOSE WHO REALLY LOVE AND CARE ABOUT YOU. AND WOMEN DON'T DO TO ANOTHER WOMAN WHAT YOU KNOW YOU WOULDN'T WANT TO BE DONE TO YOU.
Thanks for reading ....... See you soon .
