I still can't get to wrap my head around the fact that some of us actually witness this type of thing and still believe it's going to be fine. Many at times this doesn't end well at all and may lead to death too. YES, death you read right, some lead young people straight into their death.
I want to share my own bitter truth about this issue, many of us already read articles about this issue a lot (thats because people out there wishes to save lives by enlightening you)
I know someone on the receiving end of this so called abusive partner will hold on tight maybe cause you love them too much or some feel like it's their fault and perhaps you always have ill luck in your relationship and you want to fight for your relationship some feel like they in debt
Well relationships is meant to be loving and fair
Not feeling in debt to stay by their side.
Non abusive,,you know some people kinda turn abusive when they are provoked but it's still not an excuse it's bad to lay your hand on your partner.
Instead you guys are meant to sit and talk things out.
Well that been said, if you are in any sort of abusive relationship, I think it's best to abstain yourself from that partner and have a serious rethink on what you are doing ( UFC or relationship)
This life is nothing like what you see in movies
If you stick to that relationship for one reason or the other;
You might end up been weighed down and broke
It leads to a broken family, maybe you are lucky enough and your partner have a change of heart. The fighting and boxing already impacted on your child's life and it will only take the grace of God for that child not to also be an abusive or wayward teen.
Most at times this type leads to the untimely death of one among the parties. Maybe the death of the abused or the abuser(reality).
Am just speaking from experience
Please be guided and always make the best decisions in life not just for you but also for the future you are about to bring into world.
Let's stop been abusive in our relationship and learn how to talk things out instead of fighting things out.
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