Don't say you're trying to be "reasonable" so no need.
As a matter of fact, she has passed a message which you should take seriously.
She's telling you that it's your duty to do those things even if you don't have the money yet.
She's not stupid giving you her money to pay for things you both will enjoy.
A time will come when you'll have money, but you're used to her paying for things on your behalf & you become Complacent. No reasonable woman will allow herself do what she knows is her husband's role publicly.
Does she ask you to go to the market on her behalf? Even if you do, will she honestly ask you to do that in the public?
A woman can ask you to give her money in the presence of others & no one will see anything wrong with it, but can you? You can't & you know it.
So when you are fortunate to find a woman who sees you as her lead & will step back for you, even if she has more money, don't turn it down.
And don't take advantage of it either. It's a reminder to you that you need to step up & be counted but she's also recognizing the fact that you're her head or you'll be her head.
No woman is "respected" by the amount of money she has. She's respected by how she carries herself & her womanhood.
A woman that doesn't have a dime to her name can have access to where you can't have access to.
So if you find one that wishes to help you gain some respect, hold her tight & work harder.
A woman can single handedly sponsor her party & tell the whole world that it was done by her boyfriend or husband. What she wears, the phone she uses, her car etc..
She doesn't mind telling the world that you bought those things for her.
It's not for you to "come & chop", it's for you to go find the chop & step up to your role.
Else, when breeze blow, fowl nyarsh go open.
