He has a been very frequent visitor these last couple weeks. Asking for "a favor" such as smoking cannabis, or for money. Sometimes odd favors are asked like taking a shower.
At first I let him into my home for he appeared to be normal and cognitive. But after he started talking, with the stories he gave and in theanner in which he told them, I knew something was wrong with his psychology.
His conversations start as normal as someone talking about ther past or recent events. But as the time progresses, he does a randome switch, where he is talking about the past, but at the same time, as if you were there too. He then continues on in this fashion recounting tragedies and now somehow, your in on it too and both you and him are in danger.
When I see into his eyes I see someone very lost with very little soul left and consciousness.
His past includes use of heavy drug use. And Violence, but where he is the victim here.
From confermations from those who know him, they say he has been in trouble with "the law" before but only to return him home because he supposedly does have schizophrenia. Accordig to Ramond, he has been victim of gang violence. Not directly saying so but through his stories that is what I interpreted. Not only was he their bullying victim, they used him for "fun" during cartel operations. Unfortunate childhood he has had indeed.
By word of mouth, he laughs when animals die by the hands of men whether it be intentional or by accident. He has attacked at random cats especially and claims they are evil witches that change skins. (Perhaps tv shows has something to do with that belief?)
Last night he talked for 2 hours about events that i never been through, but included me in his talk as if I was there too. Anything I said he just kept talking over me. Almost as if I didn't exist.
I think he may be narcissistic aswell. He doesn't listen to what anyone says once he gets into this mode and proceeds with his stories. Or maybe he is just really lost into the story.
To get him to go on his way, I have to be really firm and assertive as if talking to a problematic child. No matter how many times I tell him no on his favors, he keeps coming back. Talking into infinity. He constantly says got to go now but stops himself and continues with wild made up events in the present too, along with his past stories.
I am not really sure how much of it is true.
He also seems to have strong paranoia when one walks behind him. Especially to cats. I see him tense up when one of my cats near him.
On one occasion he attacked my blind cat with his hat at random and I kicked him out of my home. Since then all conversations have been outside my front door.
I talked with his cousins about his continued visits and all they tell me is to be careful because he's crazy. Frankly I can look after myself as this isn't my first rodeo show. They told me to keep in contact if he continues. I have. I do not know what they plan to do with him. They have already begged their parents to stick him in a psychiatric hospital for the rest of his life.
I am wondering what some of you would do in that situation.
Wow. I would definitely see if some help can be gotten. That's rough. Poor guy.
I feel the same but I can't help him. Its not my show. Best I can do is send him off on his way and hopefully his parents would do right for him. I don't know what else to do. I don't know anyone that could help him.
I keep telling him to focus on a job to atleast get his mind occupied on something. He isn't entirely worthless. Not his fault either. We are all victims of circumstances out of our control. Some have it worse than others.
Es tan triste ver cómo la vida de algunos es cruel e inhumana, sobre todo cuando se habla de enfermedades mentales, como la esquizofrenia.
En lo personal no conozco a alguien en situación como la que comentas, pero te aconsejaría tengas cuidado. Personas así carecen de control de emociones e impulsos y por ende resultan peligros. Predecir sus actos es imposible. Aunque se nota que tienes buen corazón y por ello no le cierras la puerta y la entrada en tu vida.
Saludos! 🤗🤗
Si es triste. Lo veo mas y mas común en ciertos lugares. Talves problemas ya estan por llegar por solo ser como yo. El mundo si es cruel pero también hay jente buena y lugares buenos. No podemos ayudar a todos que ya estan en conflicto de esa manera. Solo intentar de crear una sociedad donde resulta eso menos cada ves. Gracias por comentar. Cuidate mucho.
Hola, puede que estés frente a un caso de esquizofrenia paranoide y esa por lo que sé y he visto de cerca es muy peligrosa; esta persona va a visitarte porque tiene cierta fijación contigo. Cuando la persona afectada su cabecita toma sus medicinas de manera correcta puede llevar una vida normal siempre y cuando esté controlada por un médico especialista, de lo contrario, en estados de agresividad tu vida misma corre peligro y puede que tú desees ayudarlo de alguna manera, pero se hace hasta donde se puede y le alcanza la vida, la intención y el corazón, yayogerardo.
Tómalo con tino, con calma y que él no note tu molestia o incomodidad cuando quieras hablarle de la frecuencia de sus visitas, o del asunto que se aleje de tu espacio personal. Yo conocí a una chica, así parecida al caso que nos cuentas y ella cuando estaba con el brote psicótico hasta decía que los árboles la perseguían y tenían cámaras. Si las cosas se salen de control o se torna agresivo, si tienes la oportunidad llama al servicio de urgencias de tu ciudad para que se hagan cargo, o la policía porque tu vida vale también lo mismo que la suya.
Qué pena me da leer estos casos en donde la familia se supone debe involucrarse, pero como que quieren tirarte "muerto ajeno" a ti porque te han tomado ellos como si fueras su entretenimiento.
A veces hay situaciones en donde las circunstancias multifactoriales nos vuelven víctimas de sistemas caducos.
Saludos y que todo vaya bien.
Eso es por cierto. Quiere favores. El eh echo ya 20 visitas y cada vez le doy nada. Solo escucho lo que dice y hasta ahi.
Aunque tiene muy serios problemas en la cabeza, un ser humano requiere alguien uoen lo escucha. Talves eso es porque sigue veniendo. Hoy no e venido este chavo. Talves ya lo dieron su medicinas pero no se. Tengo que preguntar a sus primos para saber algo de el.
No es la prinera vez que algo pasa asi. Una vez alguien se metio mi casa cuando estaba dormido por brincar en mi patio y entro por atras. Tambien no estaba todo ahi en la cabeza pero no era nadie peligroso como este "Ramond" podria ser. El aquel solo queria un lugar para dormir la noche y penso que estaba vasido la casa. Le dinun espacio en el colchón de silla y dormio como un bebé. Yo no dormi nada esa noche por precaución. Se fue cuando despertó, y un taza de café y lonche para llevar. Le dije que no volviera hacer eso porque casi lo termine su vida esa noche en el momento de descubrimiento del acto.
Tambien me eh pasado que de repente llegan jente muy borracho y se quedan afuera de mi casa en frente dormidos todo la noche.
Consejo anotado. Siempre hay que tener calma. Muchos aqui nomas le "mandan a la verga" a chavos como eso. por decir. No los culpo, por solo quieren estar en sano condiciones por sus familias tambien. Uno nunca sabe que puede ser cualquier persona pero no significa que no hay que intentar de ayudar. Aveces si cuesta la vida de uno por hacerlo pero eso no debe de asustarnos por el intento.
No siento que la policía atudara en estos casos. Se requiere un psicólogo especialista, algo que yo no tengo tal capacidad de ser. Hay mejores opciones que yo. Pero si requiere realmente una camisa por ejemplo, le doy una.
Don't let people like that into your house. It can be dangerous for you.
On the other street in my community there is a boy. I've always thought he uses substances. But, the other day when I was on my way to college I heard him talking to a girl. Like the boy you describe, he was saying incoherent things. There I found out, that maybe he suffered from schizophrenia or something similar.
Anyway, I avoid going through there, because it becomes aggressive.
Solo dejo familia entrar mi casa normalmente o asociados del jale.
Este individuo llego de la nada. Si llega de nuevo no veo otro opción pero que decirle que se vaya y no regrese.
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