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The ups and downs of life is such that could be difficult to handle at some point but you may be lucky to have a strong backing that is always around you to give you the support you need and to motivate you not to be discouraged with your present conditions.
They provide you with the motivation and inspiration to keep achieving great results and you may not be able to beat your chest that you'd be in your present position without their support.
However, I admonish you to be careful not to seek other people's affirmations each time you experience difficulties in life. There are times when you would need someone to lean on but no one will be around, there are times when you would need a crying shoulder but you will be left all by yourself.
So, what happens to your at this point? Is it going to signify your end? No, it should not. It is a time for you to focus on your inner prowess, motivate yourself and be your own support system. It is the time to believe in yourself and your ability to overcome any stumbling block.
There are two close friends who share everything with each other, especially the information about their relationship. One of them is always having issues in her relationship and each time she is not in good terms with her partner, she comes to tell her friend all that transpired. She will be comforted by her friend as she cry and complain bitterly about her challenges. Unknown to her that her close friend has another friend that they discuss about her relationship issues and even make jest of her situation.
She was broken when she realized that the person who was supposed to be her support and backbone is making mockery of her challenges with someone else. Since that day she has learnt to be her own support system and not rely on other people for affirmations and validations.
You've got to be your own number one hype man. You have to inspire yourself every day of your life as your journey to accomplish your goals. It is important to always speak positively into your life and these positive thoughts will definitely materialize into something that will change your life for good.
Meanwhile, you must identify your strengths and weaknesses, working in line with your strengths will mean more success for you. It is impossible to have mastery in every aspect of life, so pay keen attention to what you're good at and ride on with swagger.