The psychology of the poor is probably hatred towards the rich and laziness, which is also the root of the poor being able to become poor. Most people do not want others to do better than themselves. If there are colleagues, friends, neighbors, etc. who do better than themselves, a strange thing will arise. Even if they don't say it, they will feel jealous in their hearts. In order to maintain their pitiful dignity, poor people still have to put on a "disdainful" appearance, inevitably suppressing their advantages and superiority, and always looking for opportunities to say a few sarcastic words.
This is an attitude towards the rich, but it is completely different when facing the same poor people. On the surface, there is great enthusiasm, but they wish the other party would suffer even more than themselves. If such a situation really occurs, they will pretend to go and visit, and maybe even shed a few tears with them. But they may be overjoyed in their hearts, spreading joy behind their backs, with a face of adding insult to injury.
During this year's New Year's Day, one of my aunts of the family in my hometown passed away. I took a leave of absence to attend her funeral and met my childhood playmates from the village forty or fifty years ago as a result. Decades have passed, leaving the imprint of time on our faces. While lamenting aging, I also lamented the reality that had not changed in them. They are still in the countryside, busy with what kind of livelihood, farming? Working? Personality and temperament remain unchanged, everything remains the same except for appearance. There are also middle-aged women and old ladies looking on passively, some with dirty black faces, dressed casually, and expressionless, standing at their doorstep staring blankly at us. I couldn't help but feel desolate, as it seemed very similar to the group of people depicted by Mr. Lu Xun.
Life is short, if you don't work hard when you're young, even if you try your best in old age, it's already in vain. Moreover, if one lacks ideals in their youth, how can they develop the ambition to achieve success in their old age? Without changing ideological concepts, without willpower, strong confidence, determination, and perseverance, if one wants to change the status quo, it is just empty talk. Eating and drinking, laughing and joking, indulging in loud and empty talk, decades suddenly pass by, then getting old unconsciously.
So, we should stay away from people at the bottom of society, away from the poor, and not have a compassionate heart. Because such people fear power and fear no virtue, and do not know how to be grateful, the law of the jungle is their survival principle. Forgetting righteousness for the sake of profit, obeying any one who feeds him, is a true portrayal of these people.
穷人心理，大概就是仇富和懒惰，这也是穷人能够成为穷人的根源。大多数人是不希望别人混得比自己好的，若有自己的同事、朋友、邻居等混得比自己好，便生出一种莫名的东西来，即使嘴上不说，心里也妒忌得很。为了维护自己那点可怜巴巴的尊严，穷人还要摆出一副“瞧不上”的样子来，势必要把人家的优势和优越感打压下去，还时时不忘寻找机会说上几句风凉话。
这是对富人的态度，可面对同样的穷人时，就完全不一样了。表面上热情有加，可巴不得对方遭难，落得比自己还要惨。若真出现这种状况，他们便假惺惺前去探望一番，说不定还要陪着掉几滴眼泪。可他们心里说不定喜滋滋的，背地里逢人便传播，带着喜悦，一副落井下石的嘴脸。
今年元旦期间，老家一家人的一个婶子去世，特请假回家参加婶子的葬礼，也因此见到了四五十年前村子里的伙伴。几十年过去，时光留在脸上的烙印，感叹变老的同时，也感叹他们身上没有任何变化的现实。他们依旧在农村，不知忙着何样的生计，种地？打工？性格脾气依然，一切照旧，除了容貌。还有大街上看热闹的中年妇女和老太太们，有的脸上脏黑，穿着也不讲究，面无表情，站在自己门口木然地看着我们。我不禁悲凉起来，这似乎与鲁迅先生笔下的那群人很是相似。
人生短暂，年轻时不努力，年老时即使再有心努力，已是枉然。何况，年轻时没有理想，年老时又怎会生出青云之志来？思想观念不改变，没有意志力，没有坚强的信心、决心和毅力，若想改变现状，只是空谈。吃吃喝喝，嘻嘻闹闹，高谈阔论，几十年倏然而逝，然后不知不觉老去。
所以，要远离底层，远离穷人，更不可发慈悲之心。因为这样的人畏威不畏德，更不懂得感恩，弱肉强食便是他们的生存法则。见利忘义，有奶便是娘，是这些人的真实写照。
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