1.The chosen ones have their own brightness and wear golden armor; how can they be controlled by lowly people? Having been through hardships but not in danger. Heaven will constantly protect them from danger, remove all impediments and bonds, and restore universal peace and tranquillity. So, planning is dependent on people, while success is dependent on heaven. People make a thousand plans, but Heaven has only one.
The selected ones are compassionate and gentle, caring for their country and people, righteous and upright, and carrying out a divine assignment. How can these petty individuals damage them? God will not agree, much less give anyone a chance.
2.All close relationships are only transient, transitioning from unfamiliarity to familiarity and then back to unfamiliarity; the difference is that some people can handle it while others can't let go. Laozi made the following observation: “Sounds of crowing cocks and barking dogs were heard around -- two places are very close to each other, but people there were completely isolated from each other all their lives.” But now I believe that this is the best relationship--- no relationship is the best one.
Zhuangzi once said, "It's better to forget each other in the rivers and lakes than to help each other when both are in humble circumstances." Having owned and having been close to each other in the past is destined not to last long. Like a solemn pledge of love, an oath of unchanging fidelity, which one can last long? In the end, only mutual forgetting can last long. We have met before, but we have never met, or in other words, we have long forgotten each other. This is the best ending.
3.In middle age, a person has become a husband, wife, father, or mother, and has married and begun a career. If you come across someone you like or who likes you, it is only appropriate to meet them, not approach them, and even less appropriate to hold hands. Otherwise, there would be scattered chicken feathers on the ground--- Many minor details in life can be annoying, and it will be too late to regret.
1.天选之人自带光芒，身披金甲，又岂是小人能干拿捏？历经磨难，却有惊无险。上天总会在危急时刻救其于水火，为其扫平一切障碍和羁绊，从此天下太平，恢复往日的宁静。所以说，谋事在人，成事在天。人有千谋，而上天只有一谋。
慈悲善良，心怀家国，忧国忧民，仗义正直，独来独往，肩负着上天的某种使命，这便是天选之人，世间小人怎能加害于他。上天不会答应，更不会给任何人机会。
2.所有的亲近关系都不过是阶段性的，从陌生到熟悉，再从熟悉到陌生，只是有的人看得开，有的人放不下。
老子说：“鸡犬相闻，老死不相往来。”曾一度被人批判，说是消极、遁世。可现在的我才相信，这就是最好的关系，没有关系，就是最好的关系。
庄子又说：“相濡以沫，不如相忘于江湖。”曾经拥有，曾经亲近，可注定不会长久。如同山盟海誓、地久天长、海枯石烂，哪一个能够长久？到最后，唯有相忘才会长久。我们相遇过，但又未曾相遇过，或者说早已忘记了，这才是最好的结局。
3.人到中年，已为人夫人妻、人父人母，成家立业，此时若是遇到了自己喜欢或者喜欢自己的人，只适合遇见，不适合走近，更不适合牵手了。否则，最终只能是落的一地鸡毛，悔之晚矣。
