Have a great start of the week to all the users that make life on this platform, and especially in this community. Each of us has a way of assuming life, from its complexities to the facilities, and this is due in the first instance to our differences, and these in turn to the fact that each of us have different needs.
This is how in life each individual has and creates his or her own pattern, generating his or her own unique path in the field of personal growth. This is why we can safely say that personal growth is a unique journey, and each person focuses on different aspects, which will be different for each of us on different aspects according to their specific needs and objectives.
Here, at this point, I come back to the point of constant comparisons, because it is easy to get lost in this illusion that there is a universal recipe for personal success, this is appealing, attractive, because there are those who can make this look easy, and let's face it, it is not.
However, the truth is that each of us is a unique accumulation of experiences, values and aspirations. If we look at our daily lives, it is clear that our choices, whether small or large, demonstrate our individuality.
Take the everyday example of goal setting. For some, personal growth may manifest itself in setting very ambitious career goals, perhaps climbing the corporate hierarchy.
While for another individual, he or she might find personal fulfillment in the pursuit of creativity, expressing themselves through art or writing. Both paths are equally valid, as they reflect the authenticity of those who undertake them. It is necessary to understand that comparisons damage our journey called life.
A friend's career may advance by leaps and bounds, while ours seems slower. However, who dictates the pace of personal growth? The answer, at least for me, lies in the authenticity of our choices.
That is why instead of measuring our progress according to external standards, we should do it based on our internal needs and goals, this is something very personal, it is individual..
Unfortunately the social can lead us to believe that we have to follow certain predefined standards, whether in career choice, financial goals or even in the pursuit of emotional well-being. It's as if we all have to be more or less the same in order to fit into the overall context.
However, (and I will insist on this as the main thrust of my post) it is necessary to remember that what works for one may not be what works for you or me. Happiness and personal growth are not found in conformity to the expectations of others, but in the authenticity of our choices.
It is important and necessary that we know how to filter what we see and hear, that we can determine very well what we want to expose ourselves to and what not, because all that external noise (visual and auditory) can make a dent in us, even if we do not want to assume it.
Now to finish, because I have to go to work. 😁 and not to be repetitive, let's not forget that personal growth depends on you, on your needs, on your inner journey above the external, don't get overwhelmed with the realities of success of others, because maybe even if you were in the same position as him or her you would not be at ease, because that achievement does not necessarily meet your expectations. Have a great week ahead, and of course, a great month.
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