Hello beautiful people. As established in the first part, the relationship between a father and a son is so important that every child needs to experience his father to understand the world before having to face the world on his own.
A father doesn’t know everything.
A father must be his son's hero but at the same time, he must show his son that he doesn’t know everything in the world, this is key because as much as the father wants to be all and do all, there will come a time that the father will not be able to do something and that will teach the son that he must also be careful of over-promising and under-delivering, but it is much better to under-promise and over-deliver.
A son must learn to function in his power. It is important to say sorry, I do not know the answer, sorry, when the child is offended and when the child questions his authority, he must learn when to explain and when to override.
You cannot give what you do not have
A father must give the son what the son will require to function properly in the world, the father must teach the son love, loyalty, empathy, and happiness. This is important because the son needs to learn these things so that he can function properly in the world.
A son who was never taught how to love will never be able to love properly, a son who doesn’t understand loyalty will not understand what it means to stand by one person. There is a wide range of emotions that the father needs to teach the child.
I am proud of you.
A father must always show his pride in his son, he should let his son figure out some things in life and then show him forth to the world and show how proud he is because of the goodness that the son has achieved. A father must show his son that there are consequences to the actions he takes, either good or bad. A father must show his son that he can achieve anything he sets his mind to achieve, the son can be anything, but the son cannot be everything to everyone.
I believe in you
A father needs to instill a healthy competitive desire in his son by helping him to build his desire for confidence, self-reliance, self-esteem. A proper foundation for pursuing goals, pursuing careers, pursuing dreams, and achieving them as well. A father must be the first believer in the son.
Truth will always prevail
A father must show his son that truth cannot be hidden for long, people can say whatever they like, they can do whatever they like, but the son must be himself and do what is right standing by the truth irrespective of what the world is saying. A father must teach his son to listen carefully and keep his eyes open because there are many deceivers in the world. The son must grow in wisdom and knowledge and learn to do what is needed to become a man when the time is right.
Personal development
A father must train the child to learn to build his mind, his body, his family, and his business, these are four cardinal points in the life of every son, who he becomes revolves around it and it is going to be the result of his actions and all he has done from birth up to that point at the end of the day.
Be a gentleman and remain one
A father must show the son how to behave in the society, this is key because a son who has no example will later turn to social vices, a father must teach strong moral principles and tell the son how to stick to doing the right things in life and this is even when everyone stands against that opinion.
