Hello beautiful people. Desperation is the Mother of frustration and destruction. Anytime a person is desperate, they are most likely to make expensive mistakes that will plunge them in a terrible quagmire and a regrettable miasma.
Once a person is desperate for anything, they loose their rest, their peace and sleep even before the arrival of the main catastrophe. There is a strong Tiv maxim that says "kwagh a salen wé asaa, kwagh mom ade hangen wé ga." which translates that, Have Good Desires But Don't ever be Desperate.
Yeah! it is very good to have Great Visions and Beautiful Desires but nothing in this world is worth being desperate for. Desperation makes a person to believe that they have to do anything by any means to achieve their purported ambition.
Anytime you get to that point in life where you begin to believe that it has to be by hook or by crook, just know that you are becoming desperate and most likely you will not like the end result and the damages that you will cause to yourself in the long run.
most people that marry out of desperation, end up marrying demons that incapacitates their lives forever. Most people that take desperate moves to make money so as to enjoy a life of comfort and luxury, end up selling their souls and running kitti kitti and running katta katta and dem no dey fit drink water drop cup.
A lot of people in a bid to come out of desperate situations like debts, shame and reproach, end up in deeper debts and reproaches because of the desperate moves they make. Most people that are desperate to occupy high positions of life, do unprintable things to get there only to discover that the stress and the destructive price they pay is not worth it at all.
The lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes and the prides of life are all vanities that are great and necessary but are not worth loosing our souls and dying for. In the pursuits of all Life's ambitions, we must rush slowly.
You have always known that desperate situations requires, desperate measures but Today, I want to beg you to calm down and realize that desperate situations requires a more careful and calculated approach so you don't misfire into a deeper mess. Nothing in this world is worth loosing our peace or going to hell for.