BEFORE YOU MARRY YOUR VAL.

in blurt-131902 •  2 days ago 

Hello beautiful people. Carefully pay attention to these three phases to have a working marriage. As you should know, life is not a bed of roses, neither is marriage.

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  1. BE THE RIGHT PERSON.
    Too many people wanting to marry the right person without trying to be right themselves. I will dwell more on this phase because it is the foundation.

This phase is about self-improvement and maturity. The following fall under it:

i. SELF-AWARENESS
Understand your strengths, weaknesses, values, and beliefs. Knowing yourself will help you make better choices in a partner and navigate relationship challenges more effectively.

ii. EMOTIONAL MATURITY
Develop healthy coping mechanisms for stress, conflict, and difficult emotions.

iii. PERSONAL GROWTH
Work on any personal issues or insecurities that might hinder a healthy relationship. Are there any past traumas you need to address? Do you have any unhealthy relationship patterns you need to break?

iv. FINANCIAL RESPONSIBILITY
Develop sound financial habits like budgeting, saving, and managing debt. Find means and make your own money. This can not be overemphasised.

v. LAY A SOLID SPIRITUAL FOUNDATION
If the devil hates anything it is a working marriage. He will do anything to destroy it. Your ability to know his plans and what to do is in deep waters. Only the spiritual draw it out.

v. INDEPENDENCE
While marriage involves interdependence, it's essential to maintain a sense of individuality and independence. Have your own interests, hobbies, and friendships. Don't rely solely on your partner for your happiness. Happiness is from within.

  1. MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON FOR YOU
    This phase involves careful consideration and discernment. It's not just about romantic feelings but also about compatibility and shared values. Abeg pray o.

  2. TREAT THE RIGHT PERSON RIGHT
    This phase is perhaps the most tricky and difficult of them all. Even if you prepare yourself and marry the right person, it doesn't mean your marriage will automatically work.

You must be willing to put your commitment into action and nurture the marriage. It requires continuous efforts and determination to make it work.

Sometimes, it will be tiring, but that's why it is not for children. It's for the strong at heart.

Dear young one, after the mushy mushy feelings you will have today, remember in marriage, sometimes even Valentine's Day is not valentine.

SO, BEFORE YOU MARRY YOUR VAL: CONSIDER THIS HELP I HAVE JUST EXTENDED TO YOU FOR FREE.

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