A newlywed girl comes to visit her father's house after marriage. Her mother is very interested to know how she feels in that house. The girl replied- “I don't like being there. How are the people. I don't like the environment either. ”Her mother saw a kind of frustration in her daughter. It took quite a while to see. It's time for the girl to leave. Just the day before she left, the mother entered the kitchen with her daughter. The mother puts water in the pot and keeps it warm.
Once it starts to boil, the mother puts carrots, eggs and coffee beans in the pot. Thus, after twenty minutes, the mother put out the fire. Put the carrots, eggs and coffee beans in a bowl. This time he addressed the girl and said- "Tell me if you understand from here"? The girl said "I don't understand anything". The mother said "Didn't you notice anything?" The girl said again "No mother".
This time the mother said, “Carrots are fairly hard, eggs are very light and coffee beans are very hard. But when they were put in hot water, there were three kinds of things. The carrots became very soft, and the eggs hardened, and the coffee beans blended with the sweet-smelling and sweet-tasting water. "
Then the mother tried to explain the matter in terms of reality. My mother said, "The words that I will tell you now, this is exactly how my mother told me. I don't know how much the words will benefit you, but it has affected my life a lot. "
Mother paused and said, "If you present yourself in your husband's house in a difficult way, you will be confronted with a hostile environment. It will weaken you and soften you like a carrot. It will break your personality." If you present yourself as soft-brittle, the hostile environment will seize you, hit after injury and harden your heart at once, just like an egg. But if you can control your condition by mixing yourself with the hostile environment with your love, the environment will become beautiful just like a coffee bean mixing itself with hot water makes the water delicious and fills the surroundings with sweet smell. ” The next day, when the girl was on her way to her husband's house, she had a surprisingly calm expression and a strong conviction.