LIFE IS NOT A COMPETITION

We live in a world of pretense where people fake their lives and live to please others even to their detriment.

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Life is not a competition but some want to join competitors even in dressing.

Unknown to some that what we see is what they choose to show us and the others are better known to them.

No man knows the content of the heart except the carrier and the creator.

If everyone would explain why and how they got the clothing and accessories used to attend events.

You would realize that you are a bar of gold.

And you'll be,

◾Proud of yourself and live without fear yet quit the feeling that you're not good enough which is self-doubt.

Let that negative thought go.

◾ You wouldn't be self-conscious about what people think of your look when attending parties.

I never said you shouldn't dress modestly. I'm in support of modest dressing but neat and smart.

◾You'll wear what you have with confidence.

You'll not be seated in the hall and keep turning your neck to take note of who is and who is not looking at your dresses.

Then you go home and start feeling depressed, angry, and pitiful. Making your effort look small and unimportant that's self-deprecating.

◾You'll know that your clothing is expensive because it belongs to you but no one else.

◾ you'll learn how to attend functions without using accessories and clothing as an excuse that's living a life of self-denial even when you love to be at the event.

There is no excuse in life. It's either you don't want to attend.

◾ Also, you'll learn to build your self-esteem, self-worth and have a positive self-image.

Nevertheless, you're special and full of energy. You're beautiful in your look.

Don't feel like others are better and fortunate because they can easily have access to majorly everything they desire.

You can as well be fortunate by grace yet be the best version of yourself. Never think anyone is better or important than you're.

The thing is, everyone is important and needed to perform a particular task, you're not an exception to that fact.

Let not the appearance of others intimidate you, it's not all you see that they have neither is it by their hustle.

Everyone is packaging, so learn to package yourself but not to belittle and look down on yourself not live a fake life.

Not even to feel they are better than you.

The truth is, if they should tell you what they went through, the stress and sacrifice paid to gain access to flamboyant living, would you like to live in their world?

Maybe Yes or No.

The choice is yours.