Do we rely on our partners too much?

in women •  11 months ago 

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People's inability to think independently is one thing that really irritates me about them. One of my friends lost her husband over a year ago. It appears that I am now the one who makes her decisions. Though it's obvious that she trusts me, the truth is that she is incapable of making independent decisions. It appears as though her spouse made all of the decisions for them, leaving her in a difficult situation even though it is evident that she fears making the incorrect choices.

She genuinely wants to move since she genuinely despises her current residence. After weeks of looking, she finally discovered the most exquisite home to rent last week. Although it is larger and far less expensive than her current residence, she is still undecided about moving.

When I first met her yesterday, I had to physically create a positive and negative chart to persuade her that moving would be the best course of action.

We had a lengthy and serious conversation after she made her choice. It is reasonable that she misses her spouse, which is the sad part. Although losing a spouse is tremendously upsetting, life must continue on and we must learn to live independently once more.

When their lovers pass away, I have witnessed a lot of ladies crumple to the ground. These women are unable to take care of themselves because they are so reliant on their husbands. They have no financial management skills, and the dangerous thing is that some women choose a new partner swiftly to assume the responsibilities of the previous one simply because they are unable to support themselves.

We discussed the very same subject this past weekend. One acquaintance said she would be lost if something happened to her husband. She has no idea what goes on there, and he manages all the money. That is an extremely terrifying idea!

Do women grow so dependent on their spouses after marriage that they give up so much of themselves?

And there's always the flip side of the equation. Some ladies are eager for their spouses to pass away. Following the death of their companion, they essentially transform their appearance and begin engaging in hitherto unexplored activities. What makes them act in such way? Are we not meant to do everything and spend our lives WITH our partners? If not, why did you decide to marry in the first place?



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