Widow spiders are known for the female killing the male after mating, interesting!
The other thing they are known for is the red/orange markings on their abdomen, which resembles an hourglass:
Are you sure it's supposed to be a widow?
It's too bad she will not use Blurt on a computer. I think young people should learn how to use computers and not rely 100% on smart phones, which have greatly reduced functionality, and massive privacy issues. I swore I would never use a smart device, and have kept that promise. I have watched the whole world get addicted and dumbed down by those awful things in just the past 12 years. People don't even know how to communicate properly anymore... they only know how to swipe left and right. Scary future we are headed into, and smart devices take us one step closer to a cashless society and big tech/govt surveillance state.
But she's a grown up now and can do what she wants! I have 2 kids her age, also, but sadly I have not been able to see them in several years : ((
I didn't know you have grown kids! How come you haven't seen them so long?
She says it is a black widow + freedom of art I guess 😜
I don't know how it goes there, but the female has the legal power here in Canada nowadays. If the children's mother wants, she can deny contact between them and their father. She can also demand large monthly payments from their father, even if he's disabled and unable to pay. That results in his driver's license being taken away, and his inability to own a passport, a bank account, and all the things that require them. She can even have them declared "adult dependents", and continue to demand these things until they pass 25 years of age. That has been my life situation now for 10 years. I miss them so badly every day. I don't know what lies have been told about me, but all I want is to see them again.
Man bro, that is heavy to hear... Can't imagine what you have been going through... I presume and hope, that they will come to you, when they are older and hopefully want to hear your version of the story...