Maintain Your Self-esteem || Thoughtful Friday

in selfesteem •  4 years ago 

Hello Friends,

Happy Friday, today was our holiday, so I had to be busy with things all day long. But to be honest I try my best to enjoy Fridays. Because one thing we need to keep in mind is that the opportunity that is going away today will never come back. So we have to try to ensure proper use of every opportunity.

But whether we waste the opportunity or try to take advantage of it, we have to keep our position with all our efforts. Because if we lose our position in order to secure the opportunity, it will not be possible to hold the position by using that opportunity. In our society, one thing is always said, "Self-esteem is above all things."

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Because once self-esteem is lost, it is impossible to fix it or bring it back to its previous position. So keep in mind that one should not lose one's position or self-esteem for the sake of anything or for the sake of taking temporary advantage. It is not right to expect something good from someone who does not care about his self-esteem.

Now the question may arise, is it easy to maintain self-esteem? In fact, there is nothing easy in the world, because behind every work we have to waste time and work hard. Whether it is a good deed or a bad deed!

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But I can share some things that I always look for in order to maintain my self-esteem. Because it is true that if you follow certain ways in all matters, those things will become easier for you. Now that everything depends on ourselves, how much are we aware of the issue and how interested are we in maintaining our position? Because if you don't want to, nothing will be achieved!

In the case of certain subjects, hold your position no matter what. Like the things you are always afraid of, or the things you don't have the courage to do. Then keep yourself away from them. Then search for the causes of fear, think of ways to overcome them, gather more information. Then overcome the fears by trying to solve them. This will increase your self-confidence as well as your self-esteem.

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The second thing I am always aware of is my goal and purpose. Because whatever I am doing, there is a right motive behind all the efforts. For which I have to constantly try to implement my plan. So no matter how many problems or dangers I face, I never stray from my goals and plans, I keep trying. So you have to work according to your own plan to implement your specific goals and objectives.

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And the third thing I am more sincere about is trying to keep myself positive all the time. Because the negative position weakens all our efforts. So look at the good in yourself from time to time and look at the bad. Take note of the bad and pay more attention to improving your condition. Because the bad aspects are one of the main obstacles to improving your condition.

Declaration: This is original content of mine with own photography without first one.

Thanks all for understanding.

@hafizullah

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আমি মোঃ হাফিজ উল্লাহ, চাকুরীজীবী। বাংলাদেশী হিসেবে পরিচয় দিতে গর্ববোধ করি। বাঙালী সংস্কৃতি ও ঐতিহ্য লালন করি। ব্যক্তি স্বাধীনতাকে সমর্থন করি, তবে সর্বদা নিজেকে ব্যতিক্রমধর্মী হিসেবে উপস্থাপন করতে পছন্দ করি। পড়তে, শুনতে এবং লিখতে ভালোবাসি। নিজের মত প্রকাশের এবং অন্যের মতামতকে মূল্যায়নের চেষ্টা করি। ব্যক্তি হিসেবে অলস এবং ভ্রমন প্রিয়।

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