The Illusion of Love and the Reality of Control: A Cautionary Reflection

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There is currently no other method to get in touch with you. It's funny, huh? Since I can't reach you via phone or message, it might be best to write this here. I just hope you see the point he made about me being blocked on social media. I have had the brief opportunity to meet you, and I can vouch for your charming nature and heart. You've grinned at me. Additionally, I've seen your fear.

I'm starting to worry about this relationship, as you can see. All I can do is tell you what I see; you have to make the decisions. I may not be the best person to talk about love or even loving right, but trust me when I say that I know right from wrong. As of right now, all that's apparent to me is that certain things aren't quite right.

Our power comes from love, my dear. What's finest for us is actively sought after by love. We improve as people as our level of love rises. Our freedom comes from love. It makes authenticity possible for us. We are able to let down our guard and be authentic because we know and trust that the people who important to us understand us. You know, most of the things that happen in most relationships are only reflected in most marriages. It is dependent upon the couple because they provide their vitality to a marriage.

Do you truly believe you are satisfied? Alternatively, can the illusion of love make you feel constricted or suppressed? This guy's constant FBI surveillance of you, his selection of the individuals you see, and his demand for a full report on your daily activities leave me feeling sick to my stomach. His attempts to gain access to your phone and watch who you talk to and say what to whom have me worried about you.

I wouldn't be as worried if he was truthful that this knowledge originated with him. But when he demands information from you about his former relationships and discussion partners, baby girl, and keeps them hidden from you, I want to smack him if I ever meet him. that even though he's not married to you, he feels like he owns you. One never belongs to the other. All they do is choose to be together. a decision taken freely, accompanied by all the rights and benefits that each adult in a free society is entitled to.

Please use caution. You never have to hide in order to make a phone call while you are with him. You shouldn't remove the message, no matter how chaste it is, to stop him from reading it a certain way. Oh my! That isn't what love is. Either way, this is getting longer than I had planned. Far too many of my friends have suffered as a result of decisions made later in life. I hope you make a good decision.