The complexities of living with your partner

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What do you think about staying so close to the person you love or living with your partner ?

Do you think it’s good, am I the only one that get scared of staying so close to my partner, the fear of disrespect, the fear of loosing yourself , being so vulnerable and at the end of the day the memories might hurt or give you enough joy.

Staying with your partner exposes your true level of compatibility, you get to understand your differences , similarities, likes and dislikes.
The chance of losing him/her is really high at this point, because they might get easily irritated or bored of you.
Definitely they are fun moments and moments where you have to understand each others mood , but all of these seems scary, because you will be left to overthink about a lot.

Incompatibility is really exhausting at this point, You have to learn that there is absolutely nothing wrong with either of you. You are just different being , and want different things . It’s extremely annoying because it feels like all you want is to make the relationship work, like all you need to do at that point is to be open to the changes. Living with your partner makes them to learn about you in a different light.

Staying with your boyfriend involves alot of corporations, I had a thought that if you can’t cooperate and find solutions to issues you won’t last living with your partner or even marriage so it’s better you break up and move on with your life .

Lastly, there should be mutual agreement before making such move, no matter how short you want to stay, the society we find our self is so judgmental and full of hypocrisy, it’s important you cohabit with a wise partner and someone that sincerely loves you.

Lots of people believe that “love conquers all” but it is false . There are some situations that you have to disregard love , because it’s more of a logical problem, that love can never solve.We cannot stop being who we are, even when we have forced or acted ourselves into thinking of such personality.

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